hun, you nor anyone else can fix his problem. he has to fix it himself, whether it be through a doctor, a place like this or to change the way he thinks.

No one can fix a problem like that, only himself.

he wont do anything, he says im the one that has to help him, and idk what to do.. :(

Its not your problem , its his. If you doesn't do something about his anger problem himself.. Then he doesn't care about you. End of discussion.

i think you are doing what you can. you cant physically drag him to a doctor and if he wont do anything about it, you will either have to just put up with the abuse (i know you dont want to) or leave him.

Hun, you cant spend your days with someone calling you skank, slut and if i read correctly, he also physically abused you. I can guarantee that if he done it once, he will do it again

he certainly needs to do something
that situation wouldnt cut it with me you are better than me
you are worth more than that
he needs help but only he can help himself you can't do it for him although you can support him only if he's not beating on you or anything dont stay around forit
it will only bring you down to a place that you will have to dig out of big hugs to you at least he knows that he needs the help so that is the first step and that is good on his part big hugs to you guys im here if you need to talk

if he wants "you" to help him here's what I suggest:

tell him if "HE" doesn't learn to control "HIS" anger, you are going to leave him, PERIOD.

the longer you stay, the more you are enabling him.

I already left him many times before for hurting me. he'd end up crying and calling everyday and telling me he loves me and needs me and that hes sorry. he use to threaten to kill himself. and i love him and it hurts me seeing like that so i don't leave. my life would be perfect with him. he just has his anger that is in the way,

omg, get clear of him now. He uses blackmail to get you back.

leave him, and let him threaten himself all he wants. dont fall for it, its a ploy just to get you back

decent people do NOT use blackmail

I cant nor do i want to. i need him in my life. i love him. hes the only guy that never cheated on me in a relationship. and even if i did i'm not use to be single, becuase i ahve been with him so long. 1 year and 4 months is a very long for me. and plus,. no guy would want me becuase of my dperession and ym family problems

Get out Get out Get out Get out!!!!!!!!
I'm sorry, but i CANNOT stress that enough. People like him will NEVER change, EVER!!
I was hoping I could change someone like that, but I promise you hun, it cannot be done. He needs to want to help himself, and by the sounds of it, he obviously doesn't want to.
I am speaking from experience hun. I've been there, and I put my life, and the life of my child in danger because of it. Get out while you still can...

"if you do what you always done, you get what you've always gotten"

listen to me please. he will end up RUINING your life if you stay. you are only young hun, you can find someone who will treat you better than that

Idk, i just wouldnt be the same without him.

you will be healthier without him.

please listen to me. I have my share of problems as well but I have never acted like that or will i ever act like that.

he uses blackmail to keep you there. Its wrong and blackmail is also very illegal.