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my 'best friend'

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i get so pissed off
shes ment to be my best friend, instead she'll go off with anyone as an excuse not to be near me anymore.
it started like a month or so ago, when she went to CCF camp, she did 'stuff' with some guy, and ever since shes been going off with our close friend imogen who has had sex and stuff, so she felt she could talk to her. louise (my best friend) told me what happened and i thought things owuld go back to normal, but instead she still goes off with imogen, and all the other people from CCF who she told before me too. it seems like shes not my best friend any more, she hangs out with all these other people more than she does with me, but when she is around me, she always says she loves me and that weird best friends, i dont want to be her shoulder to lean on when there is no one better around, cos ive been that before and i hate that, but at the same time i'd do anything to stay best friends with her, what should i do to make her see what shes doing to me, and make her either be my best friend again, or just piss off for good.
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I'd say perhaps find other friends too and when she wants you tell her your busy and see how she reacts. Perhaps tell her how her behaviour is making you feel?
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deleted_user
ive talked to her, but i dont think she really gets how much this effects me, to be honest, im not the most secure person and the slightest drives me crazy.
MaRhianna
MaRhianna
You need to make new friends, the more you have the better. Then you won't have to rely on one friend only.
Good luck
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If she is truly a good friend make her know how deeply it hurts you. If she is a real friend she will care nd do something about it. She probably doesn't really know what she's doing. It sounds like she is in a difficult period in life now, it can be confusing. If anything just let her know your there and know she will be too if you really need her.
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