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My wife and I have been seperated over a year now. She hasn't file the divorce papers.. she called me last night to talk. Now I am SERIOUSLY depressed..I am praying for reconciliation of the marriage but unless SHE calls to talk I am unable to get her to talk to me about anything..even the kids. Please someone help cheer me up or help me get through this somehow?..
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Dude, she called you! And hasnt filled the papers! Maybe she feels the same as you? What did the phone confo go like?
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It was a good talk for almost an hour about stuff when we were first dating and the first few yrs of the marriage..
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Well see, she called you to talk about your relationship! Sounds like a possible reconciliation. I could be wrong? But why the hell would she want to talk about your relationship if she wasnt thinking about your relationship?
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Well she says she still want's the divorce but doesn't have the $$ for it..I know that is not true because I have sent her more than enough to file for it.
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Hmmm maybe thats her way of hanging on to the relationship.(not filling for divorce) why did you break up
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I was talking to her friends online about how to discuss with her the voices and etc that I was dealing with..She thought I was talking to them about sex..Her friends told her differently but she don't believe me. I have since then been diagnosed Bipolar, Schizophrenic with depression and psychosis..
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Does she have the same ailments?
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No she has PTSD, Systemic Lupis, Fybromyalga and degenerative arthristis.
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I think she must still love you and want something with you otherwise you'd already be in the divorce process. it sounds like ya'll just had a misunderstanding. I'd try talking to her again about it. I hope things work out for you.
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hmmm I dont know dude nobody does! All you can do is try .ask her, what she wants? And how you can become what she wants? Then go from there. I guess or spend a shit load of cash on things she likes drink 10 red bulls and take her out. That works too.
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I have tried to call....I always get the voicemail..leave a message and never hear back from her..Not even answer to emails, txts, letters or faxes..Nothing..unless she calls
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