hi i know alot of u know me and some dont, i was on here for awhile and quit because my husband thru me thru my computer and it broke, i was mentally,sexually,physically abused,and it got worse as the years went on i stayed 7 yrs,ladys if your man or women is emotionally beating you,thats just as bad as physical,and theres alot of sexual abuse between couples that goes un noticed because u simply think that since your a couple then it dont matter if your forced 2 do sexual acts but all that is abuse and can tear u down, i left 6 weeks ago, my depression is 10 times better, i no longer need anxiety meds and my insomnia also disapeared,so ladys and men too, if anything that ive mentioned or anything else that is hurting u in anyway from your partner please get out call an abuse hotline,they can really help you they pay medical bills 4 you also utility bills from the past and will pay for a deposit for your own place which im getting next week they will fill your appartment with everything you and or your kids need,they will provide everything, so please get out before it gets so bad that something very bad happens to you, i thank got for dakotasmomma, she told me i needed to get out an hour later i was thrown thru my computer over my bed and badly hurt,i thought about what she told me and i used her advice and got out,thankyou from the bottom of my heart,lisa i'll always love you for saving my life...and starting a new one!! oh and im going to start at at athens tech and uga in the second qaurter majoring in computer science and early childhood development, something my ex would refuse to let me do!!!godbless you lisa,and you stay strong too:)