I HAVE BEEN AT THE SAME JOB FOR 20 YEARS. BEFORE THE LAST YEAR AND A HALF, I MISSED MAYBE TWO DAYS A YEAR!!!!!!!! I DID MORE THAN MY FAIR SHARE OF WORK, WAS ALWAYS DEPENDABLE, I MANAGED THE OFFICE. HOWEVER, I AM NOW DEALING WITH MAJOR DEPRESSION AND THEY ARE REALLY PUTTING OUT VIBES THAT THEY WANT ME TO LEAVE. IT DOESN'T MATTER THAT IN THE LAST YEAR OF MY LIFE I HAVE HAD TO DEAL WITH SEPERATING FROM MY HUSBAND, WE WERE TOGETHER 20 YEARS, LOSING MY SISTER, WHO WAS MY STRENGTH, MY BEST FRIEND, MY EVERYTHING WITHIN 7 WEEKS OF BEING DIAGNOSED WITH CANCER, I HAD TO FILE FOR BANKRUPTCY, THE EX WENT CRAZY WITH OUR CREDIT CARDS, I HAD PERFECT CREDIT ALL MY LIFE, AND NOW I HAVE TO SELL MY HOUSE!!! I DEVOTED 20 YEARS OF MY LIFE TO THEM, AND THIS IS WHAT I GET. ANYONE ELSE DEALING WITH THIS?
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