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http://dailystrength.org/people/325548/journal/1472642

I am hurting so bad right now that I am shaking and crying but its not like some people care why I am, well that is why its in my journal for all to see. I am sick of being called a liar its like calling me a bitch or a whore or something horrible to me. You might as well just punch me. I am so mad people wont even listen to my side so I had to make a mean pissed off journal saying my peace about an Ex friend on here. Who has hurt others on purpose and herself not to mention her alters. She lies often all of her alters do too. And yet I am the one left crying because like usual she said she doesn't want me in her and her alters life's any longer and kind of treated me like I was her therapist and ended my services. To bad I thought I was her friend. I trusted her and she stabbed me in my heart. But no I am the bad person, I am the evil one. I am the liar. Such bull crap! How do you take people and treat them like that, oh yeah thats right your rich so your so used to that huh? God just so mad and sad right now. I got so much shit going on in my life that I cant even breathe, but I made time when I could for this person just to have them do as they have and spit in my face.
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Also I love being called the drama queen when I have only had drama in my life FROM HER AND HER LIFE.
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Too many people take the word of others as gospel without getting to the real facts or even hearing all sides of an argument. That's how the Chinese Whispers of false rumours start and spread.
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I am also upset because I lost some of MY FRIENDS because she cant be friends with people who are friends with me. And I gave some of my friends like 2 of them a warning that they needed to pick what they wanted because I wanted to protect myself from her and more harm from her. I also now have like 30 people on ignore just to make sure she cant talk to me anymore. I didn't want this, but I am sick of being told I am someones friend then treated as I did my whole life like yesterdays garbage. Its not fair to have me put my whole heart and soul into you and then just threat me like that. It just re triggers all of my past abuse and makes it flood in like its happening today. But I don't think they realize that or care to be quite honest.

Sorry I just need to let this out before I get worse. I am so upset.
Bistro
Bistro
I've wondered the same thing. Not in here, in my life a few years back. The only conclusion I could come to was they never really were my "friends". Honestly, life is better now, and the load so much lighter without them. IU would take it as a blessing in disguise. It hurts right now, but not for long. As soon as you let them go, the pain goes.
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Thank you Bistro HUGS
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I'm sorry to hear your having such a tough time trying to be a good friend to this person. You need to move on from this. Try taking deep breaths to calm down, empty your mind and slow down your thoughts, maybe go watch a nice movie or something... Just cheer yourself up in whatever way you can, try to forget about what happened with this girl.
Be confident in who you are and your ability to be a good friend. What a few people think does NOT define you. There are plenty of people around on this site and others who are willing and able to be a good friend to you. In future try to find out if you actually CAN help a person before you commit yourself to having them depend on you. We are all here because we have problems and we want to give each other MUTUAL support to get better. Try not to become co-dependant on others, people aren't perfect so being that way will always end up in disappointment.
Try to dust yourself off and move on. Focus on why you are really here.. To get better and be happier, not to be brought down by others. You'll be just fine, don't worry :-)
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chinese whispers eh
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
When I was a boy my dad told me that there was a feud in his family. He never told me what it was about, I guess that is his attempt to let it die. But what he did tell me was that he made the decision that he was not going to take sides. If he liked a family member, he would be friends with them. If not then not. And he did this without regard to where people stood in regards to this feud.

He told people he was going to pick his friends the way people should, and they were free to choose as they saw fit.

Best of all, he raised me and my sister that way. Take the high road, it has less emotional baggage associated with it!
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dunno who this is about..but i'm assuming it's someones who is/claims to have MPD.

which, BTW is VERY VERY rare.

that's just far too many people in one for me to keep up with.

anyway...i was suspected of being two-faced. i know who and what i am.
if you're NOT a liar..them saying it...doesn't make it so.
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Real sorry you had to go through that. Its a sad fact that SO many people on the Internet and DS are liars....and they hurt people. Having been here for 18 months, I can assure you that after a while you get to know how to recognise them easily and not get involved. Also a LOT of cliques on DS.....so if you DARE to have an opinion on anything, you will not only get bashed by the person who doesnt like your opinion....but also all their little friends too.

All you can do is try to remember that it is they who are at fault and not you chick.....

Take care
x
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Yep...I bet it hurts, but this is how you find out who your true friends are. Obviously this person is struggling and as hard as you have tried, it might be better if you just pull back. You know what kind of person you are, and that's what is important. Sorry you were so hurt.
((Hugs))
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this person you are talking about enlightened does have MPD and she is not a liar.i know whats going on and before you say anything else about my dear friend,rethink it cause what you are saying is not the truth.look on your own doorstep before you point fingers at her.i want say anymore right now except for you to think before speaking.
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I've been on here on and off and I just want to say that I think that you're wonderful. I mean, you were the fist one to welcome me in and you have always just been so supportive. I don't care what any one else says. I know this must be harder to say than do, but ignore all that other crap. I think you're great!
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sorry you got hurt. I think there's way to many people on here saying they have MPD. hell, they all could be lying for all we know.
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*big hugs hun*

i have read and commented on your journal.

Adamx
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