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I posted about this last night and I seem to be getting sadder and sadder about it. I really dont want to find homes for my cats. I really love my kitty babies. I want to tell my husband to tell the people we dont want the house. But my husband really wants the house. I dont know what to do. I am in such a pickle. But I dont want to give away my babies. I cant even look at them right now cause I feel like a traitor.
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i guess you have to decide what you want more the house or the cats...I'm sorry hunny thats what it boils down to isn't it?
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sorry your sad. If it were me no way would i move. I love my cats to much.
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I know its a hard choice to make. Move and get rid of my cats or stay here and have no heat.
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that really sucks im sorry (hug)
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No way could I give up my cats...sorry! You have to make a dreadful decision and Im sorry you are being put in this position. xx
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That really sucks. Can you talk to the landlord again and see if there is anyway to keep them?
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:(
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have you got a good friend or neighbour that would take them ? that way you could still visit and see them x
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BUMP!!
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I'm sorry but when I got with my ex I told him that me and my cats where a package deal...you take me you take my cats...my animals have been the only reason that I have fought to stay alive...so your husband wants a "house" when you took on those cats you made a pact with them....I know it's hard, but you already know what the right thing to do is....stand firm and keep looking for another house. The "kids" are depending on you and I can't believe that your husband is being so insentive to you that he's making you make this decision....does he know what the result will be to your mental health? does he care?.hmmmmmmmmmmmm
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BUMP DAMNIT!
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I'm sorry, I know it is difficult. I had a dog for 6 yrs. and had to move and give her away. The only satisfaction I got was screening people and finding the best home for her. I was depressed and in bed for 6 wks. after. Today, I think about her and know she is happy. The family who took her called me and let me know what a great dog she is and how much they love her. Just do the best you can, run a good ad in the paper, call your local tv station.. they will help find homes. Good Luck and God Bless
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Its not just a matter of a house. As of thursday we will no longer have any heat because of a dispute with the heating fuel company. The land lord here will not do anything about it and said its our problem. So we really cant not have heat with five small human children in the house.
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..a whole new angle for calling the local tv station. Bust the gas companies sox off.
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what I did when I had to find a home for my doggie...was that I found a person about my age that was a match for my doggie....I didn't want to give him up either...but he started fighting with his father...and I knew eventually one or the other would be hurt...So I just had to find a new mom for him that he would be the king......It did take me along time to come to that decision...but a friend was looking for a doggie for her mother...so Scout had a new mommy....
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