Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
8 months pregnant. Went off lexapro. I have crazy mood swings and most ofthe time I don't know if it's prgnancy or the depression. i have low self esteem. I know that. Well Saturday was my baby shower. Only 2 people came. My sister threw it for me. My husbands family didn't even acknowlege it. I really didn't think my friends would do that. Nobody RSVP'd. Well all that did was validate how I feel. Which is like crap. I don't like myself. How can anyone else like you then? It wasn't the gifts. It was the total disregard for me. I know that sounds selfish but it really hurt my feelings. what should have been a happy weekend turned out to be a huge downer. Then I started thinking my sister messed up and didn't send them all out...the invitations. I don't know. I have been crying since Saturday. owell. such is my life.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
We held a small party many years ago. 10 invitees. Two people showed up. I learned later, the other guests didn't know what RSVP meant, or they thought us expecting to do it for just a casual gathering was pretentious. The food that went to waste... We stopped socializing pretty much after that. It just got too crazy, never knowing what to expect.
You will find a lot of support and encouragement here at DS. And many strong shoulders too. One day at a time now, just cry or laugh, whichever you need to do.
As for the hubby's family, well, it is just rude. It sounds like you are surprised they didnt come, so I am guessing you havent had a fall out with them, or your friends.
Kind of surprises me the lack of concern for others when there are happy events.