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Just a weird question

deleted_user
deleted_user
I had a really outragous conversation with a couple of friends the other night about polgamy. We were talking about the pros of it and came up with all the reasons why polgamy might actually be a good idea. The obvious pros were dividing chores, slumber parties, passing of your husband to someone else when you need a break, living with your best friends etc...
No -I'm not pro-polgamy and personally I'd be too jealous to live that type of lifestyle but I do think it should be decriminalized for those over 18. What do you think? Make it legal? Decriminalize? Interested in your thoughts -just for fun.
redsilverfox
redsilverfox
LIKE THE MORMONS AND ARABIAN WIVES NO THANKS!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
well -do you think it should be decriminalized even if you disagree with it personally?
deleted_user
deleted_user
IT SHOULD BE A CRIME
scurrie
scurrie
Free conty or its supposed to be as long as your 18. You can live with as many as you want if your not married. Whats the difference. Personally I can't keep one. What are the odds of me keeping more?
deleted_user
deleted_user
polygamy is dumb.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't think the government should have any say in marriage whatsoever. If a man wants to have five wives and they all consent to it, fine. If a woman wants to have five husbands and they all consent to it, whatever. What's it to me? It's none of my business what other grown adults are doing in their own homes, as long as they're not harming others.
deleted_user
deleted_user
do you know how many more fights and stuff this would cause if it were legal?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nope!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why? If it's for consenting adults over 18 why should it be criminal?
deleted_user
deleted_user
the government is just trying to keep the world as normal as possible.
deleted_user
deleted_user
bre1217 - Fighting and disagreements occur in all relationships, no matter how many people are involved. Whose business is it if another couple (or in a case such as polygamy, group) is having a fight? If you wanted to make relationships illegal based on the prospect of people fighting with each other, NO ONE would be able to marry.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It was a fad in Bibical times, but to day nope I am not for it. There is reason why we are called to have one wife. Maybe it could be the judge got tired of the cat fights among the women, lol.
deleted_user
deleted_user
The whole idea of marriage is dumb, I think...it should not be a legal thing at all.

But criminalization for something that happens between two (or three....or four...or five....or whatever) consenting adults? This is 2007...why?
deleted_user
deleted_user
marriage should be illegal??? now that would really be dumb!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I figure if someone can make it work -good for you. I can hardly manage a relationship with one man but that's my personality. Decriminalizing it however isn't the same as considering it an actual marriage in the eyes of the government
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