Well, that got your attention, good. Everyone needs to stop fighting. Why? Because it's pointless. Nobody in history ever got someone else to understand their point of view by beating them senseless until they were either defeated or lied. There will always be someone who will not accept your view, but you will find MORE people will if you speak with a cool head and refrain from insulting, even if you are insulted. Fighting, resisting, and pushing flood both sides with negativity and hurt. If someone shoves it's is natural to shove back, then it will cycle unless you break it. You need not give it your attention and you can express yourself with calm and rationale. The less you resist/shove, the less the other will do the same and an understanding might be had. We don't need Doug to do this. We can do it.
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