My husband continuously belittled me. he was drinking then He since has been sober for about a year. My husband has had a 2 year affair now He started to lose weight dressed real nice i mean looking really good. there were numerous incoming calls on his ell phone bill. She came to me and confessed her feelings for him but told me do not worry i had my marriage. Well he started coming home at 4am after his AA class. he before he left said to me he was taking care of a sick wife when emotionally and physically he was not. i went through a period of time where the laundry was not done the house was a mess i just was in denial and complete despair. When i begun to make the house look real nice and have meals prepared and on time it did not make a difference he still continued to see her She even got kicked out of her place because he was staying there. He found her a house through a friend and refurbished it for her i needed my husbands support and he emotionally abandoned me. you see I have fibromialgia , arthritis, chronic fatigue and sever depression. The stress made my condition in overdrive. Well the affair still continues. i filed for divorce last friday and waiting for the papers to be served. he wants custody. i ahd a nervous breakdown when he was belitteling me in his drunkeness. I am completely remourseful but Because i have a domestic violence charge against me reduced to a misdemeanor I 've been told that the judge may look at that. although i have completed a 53 week anger management course. i have been in counseling on my own not court ordered for a year and a half now.I am a stay at home mom as ell and she is currently living with me. She is 10 years old and cries to come home with me wehn he tries to get her to spend the night. Which i prefer she not. We are not even divorced yet and it is confusing for her. desperately hanging in there
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