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This week has been very traumatic.
My stbx's buddy across the street, who has cameras pointed on my closed blinds, called stbx, about my nephew shifting my garage around, so I can park in it. 2 years after splitting, my space still being controlled.
The nosey neighbor does not know my nephew....likely I was once again accussed of something foul. Neighbor believes everything the wife-beater says, and I never explained my side, because it's NONE OF HIS business.
I was not there, nor was nephew, but stbx finally got his tail whipped.
He showed up again, about 10 hours ago, and proceeded to beat on my door, and wear out my doorbell.
Let me back up....he called my cellphone while I was working today, and began threatening me. He must have been lurking in the nieghborhood, as no sooner than I pulled into the garage, and close it....he started pounding on my door....not knocking....pounding!! Rang the bell consistently, to where I wonder if he wore it out!!
The glassware in my grandfather clock was rattling, the glassware UPSTAIRS in my entertainment center was rattling, hangings banging on the walls on both levels of the house. He beat my door so hard, I thought things would fall off the walls. I bettcha more than 200 strikes. His hands likely hurting.
Seemed he was coming though the door, despite the deadbolt.
When I called the police, they heard the consistent pounding and consistent doorbell ringing, over the phone.
Did not find a gun on him, but might have been in MY truck he's still driving.
Whatever...I told the cops, watch him...they did search him.
Discussing the backgound of the domestic violence, they found my protective order still valid!!
Took him to jail. I thought it expired, but then again, he's been asking me, romancing me, begging me to go to court on his behalf and ask judge to restore his permit to carry firearms. Plus, he has been asking me to give him a case of hundreds of rounds of split-hollow-points.
Ummm, I don't think so.
He can't get out tonight at all. He'll have to post a bond.
Standing there, looking so pitiful with his injuries to his face....I don't trust him.
I'm backing off posting about my family problems,
Well, I'll try.
My stbx's buddy across the street, who has cameras pointed on my closed blinds, called stbx, about my nephew shifting my garage around, so I can park in it. 2 years after splitting, my space still being controlled.
The nosey neighbor does not know my nephew....likely I was once again accussed of something foul. Neighbor believes everything the wife-beater says, and I never explained my side, because it's NONE OF HIS business.
I was not there, nor was nephew, but stbx finally got his tail whipped.
He showed up again, about 10 hours ago, and proceeded to beat on my door, and wear out my doorbell.
Let me back up....he called my cellphone while I was working today, and began threatening me. He must have been lurking in the nieghborhood, as no sooner than I pulled into the garage, and close it....he started pounding on my door....not knocking....pounding!! Rang the bell consistently, to where I wonder if he wore it out!!
The glassware in my grandfather clock was rattling, the glassware UPSTAIRS in my entertainment center was rattling, hangings banging on the walls on both levels of the house. He beat my door so hard, I thought things would fall off the walls. I bettcha more than 200 strikes. His hands likely hurting.
Seemed he was coming though the door, despite the deadbolt.
When I called the police, they heard the consistent pounding and consistent doorbell ringing, over the phone.
Did not find a gun on him, but might have been in MY truck he's still driving.
Whatever...I told the cops, watch him...they did search him.
Discussing the backgound of the domestic violence, they found my protective order still valid!!
Took him to jail. I thought it expired, but then again, he's been asking me, romancing me, begging me to go to court on his behalf and ask judge to restore his permit to carry firearms. Plus, he has been asking me to give him a case of hundreds of rounds of split-hollow-points.
Ummm, I don't think so.
He can't get out tonight at all. He'll have to post a bond.
Standing there, looking so pitiful with his injuries to his face....I don't trust him.
I'm backing off posting about my family problems,
Well, I'll try.
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Is there any way that you could see about moving to a different area? And surely the neighbour with the cameras could be done for violation of privacy or something like that?
I hope that things improove for you soon Nee
*monkey hugs* xxxxx
You never know WHO will show up in a small town! They told me the protection order may still stand, and they caught him banging the door down.
Everything with ex is contradictary, sooo...I thought it was over, still confused why he would ask me to release him in court about the protection order.
Fell for the romance....
I get it now!!
I don't want to talk to him. Too confusing....too many mixed messages....nothing new. He plays his games like that. No way can he beat down my door.
And the neighbor with cameras needs a life. He's on his 3rd marriage. Step off my life.
Yes, I have renters intersted in renting my home. Think I'll let nosey Mr. drive nails into his own marriage for the 4TH time, before I come back home.
I've married....ummmmmm...ONCE!!
His wife is questionable, but he is foul. You don't put yourself into other people's divorces. Real nice to point cameras into my windows. I showed the police, on 2 ocassions now....and one actually laughed, told me I'm a good one for putting up with it.
What can I do?
Close the blinds, I guess. Very ugly that guy calls my ex to tell him I have anyone at my home. Ex accused me of foul acts with men who changed locks, the thermostat changed....the plummer, my own nepwhew.....imagine living under a microscope.....Ex called once to say I had a lot of nerve going to church on Sunday, then having company later that day.
It was a bar-B-Q!! Lots of friends and family.....and why should I have to EXPLAIN it???
I shouldn't have to explain. Mr. Video reported it to him.
As for your neighbor, please try to ignore him; close your blinds, maybe tell your family & friends not to even look at him. He is a creep and also a scary dude.
Hugs xx
It is so creepy that ex and the neighbour, look after yourself. God only knows what they are capable of.
I restarted my computer twice, and can't read it??
Somemebody be kind and send it to me.
Yeah, done, all the way done. I tried and am tired beyond every reasonable expectation. I have no regrets.
I'm just still scared. Police asking him why he's so beat-up....he says he does not know. he got jumped. Robbed? no...just beaten....
I'm not done yet, I think.
I expect his dad to bail him out today.
Just want to be left to live in peace. Life, Liberty, The pursuit of happiness.
Not happening here, I guess. :(
UGLY stuff!!
I should have put up a trigger warning.
I let a lot of things go, but the door being beaten in is off the chain. Naw...not accepting that. DESPITE the nosey cameras, I am entilted to feel safe in my home.
PLEASE....please....please.....stay away, as far as you can from that man! I am scared for your safety Nee......I am glad he was taken to jail.
{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} & love
Hold up!!!
Voodoo does not work on God's children.
I know my day is coming, and when that day come, I'll get mine, glEEEEEEfully.
I intend to soar with angels. I will fly with my grandmother, my mother.......I can love my lost love again......I gave my life to Christ.
I am NOT afraid to die. J & S barking up the WRONG tree here!!
Whatcha got? Brang it!! Will settled, Not trippin' over punk-threats.
DO IT!!!!, or step off!!
I just want to live in peace. I don't bother these people.
So now gotta watch my back aginst his sister?
Got HER!! Brang it, Child!!
We gonna settle ALL this!!
Be easier for people to handle divorces alone.
Brang it!! Threaten me??? My address is xyz!! She knows where I live. A telephone threat....punk-gal!!!!
Aint scared o'her.....her brother pulled machetes on me ...she's tougher than that?