Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Sorry - just not feeling very politically correct or able to ignore the BS that is here and in RL for me right now.
So here's what I wonder. We all have problems and issues right? We wouldn't be here if we didn't. I would NEVER be so presumptuous as to think or indicate that my life or my problems have been any worse than anyone else's. Yeah ok, I've had my share of crap, but so has everyone else. My struggles may seem huge to me, but everyone's struggles are huge to them at times. So before you tell me how horrible your life has been and definitely before you use it as some sort of "pass" to be an ass, just think about the fact that we are all struggling with something. And yeah, some things are hard to put in the past, but if you always hold on to every grudge and every thing anyone ever did to upset you, you will have no room for any joy in your life.
So here's what I wonder. We all have problems and issues right? We wouldn't be here if we didn't. I would NEVER be so presumptuous as to think or indicate that my life or my problems have been any worse than anyone else's. Yeah ok, I've had my share of crap, but so has everyone else. My struggles may seem huge to me, but everyone's struggles are huge to them at times. So before you tell me how horrible your life has been and definitely before you use it as some sort of "pass" to be an ass, just think about the fact that we are all struggling with something. And yeah, some things are hard to put in the past, but if you always hold on to every grudge and every thing anyone ever did to upset you, you will have no room for any joy in your life.
-
I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
-
A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
We all have a choice, sometimes it is hard to see when we are hurting so bad, but we have the choicees..
We have to let the past be in the past, or we have no future.. I remind my self of this almost every day..
again Thank you
Hugs
Hugs
If you can not like yourself, farless love yourself and find a minut bit of self-esteem, you are always going to be in the "woa is me" stage.. Somethings have to be fought for..
And Im fighting for mine.. How bout you? That deep dark hole is no place I want to be right now..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TtweZxNGk1Y
hear me?? it's NO reason!!
My life has been seriously IDYLLIC compared to others I've seen on here. If anything, it has made me grateful for the parents and peace and I've enjoyed.
I would never dream of trying to justify my piss poor behavior (occasionally)--on my life or anything that I have endured. It just wont fly.
I don't know, beastie, you rock and I agree. Batdog, I'm a little slow but I've read everything and I am not so confused anymore. Is a little sad isn't it?
BUT there are those that just have to have the attention that comes along with being the victim no matter how unjustified it is.
There are some days I would rather be drug butt nekkid over broken glass with my hair afire {thank you Rima} before I read one more post on how someone elses life is worse than mine and that is how they justify behaving badly toward someone else.
Like some here I know I have it better than most and yes, I am thankful everyday for what I do have BUT that doesn't make my struggling any less than anyone elses and when some folks get that through their thick head a lot of the drama here will stop.
IMHO, only someone who is unable ot have any true empathy, or is very egocentric would insinuate that thier life, or thier pain is worse that others. however, there are times that I do think what do they know? ..that doesn't mean tho that they mean nothing, just something different.
also it shows very judgemental and unforgiving traits in a person if they portray they life is worse than others...