In real life or on DS, when does support cross the line and become enabling? I know some people are in a really bad place and that doesn't go away over night. So they may need a lot of support for a long time. But then sometimes i wonder if the constant attention and hugs for some members who seem to always need them becomes something akin to enabling. I am sure some will feel this is about them and others may feel I am being "mean" - it's not an attack against any one particular person. Just something that I wonder about myself.
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