I know that I don't post much, but I do read most threads and post when I feel that I am able to help. In another forum I am in, we all decided that we were tired of not being able to find each other for days on end, and so we are starting a list of phone numbers and emails. I am willing to do the same here. It would be completely confidential and I swear I'm not a freak, just a stay-at-home-mom. It would only be used in rare circumstances, but do think that at least two people should have the list. Pick two that you all feel comfortable with, if you don't trust me. I just think it's a prudent idea.