They win you lose thats it?

why re you leaving? i know today is a very bad day for you, dont let it make you take hasty decisions. Stay with us man18

why re you leaving? i know today is a very bad day for you, dont let it make you take hasty decisions. Stay with us man18

Oh noes, please don't leave.
You're one of my favorite people on DS
And I only just met you yesterday
Please don't go!

What the hell? What happened now? You have alot of support here and alot of people sticking their necks out for you. Taking your feelings and putting them ahead of their own. You wanted friends and you made them. you wanted support and you have gotten it. Stay and enjoy what you have achieved. YOu are going to be approached by mean people in all aspects of life. Here, at home,ect. Eventually, you have to stop running and stay and fight. I am sorry to sound stern. This is not my intent at all. I am trying to make you hear me. For days, you have posted and ds members have given you so much support. Going to bat for you behind the scenes and supporting you on the board. For what? For you to just give up and leave? I hope that you change your mind.

Don't give the trolls the power to win....please stay!!!

this is exactly wat i dont want ppl being stern 2 me u only know certain things about my life other things i find difficult 2 tell but there is a reason y i dont like bad comments and i hate that ppl make me feel like im ungrateful im just fed up and cant cope with it anymore

what about what you feel if you're so concerned with how you feel why are you always acting on what others do?

I don't think anyone is intending to make you feel ungrateful hun...only that we ALL get these nasty comments from time to time. How you deal with them makes all the difference. Delete what upsets you. The people that post these comments don't know you and never will, so why let them get to you? They'll never be part of your life. You have the power to make them go away. Don't let them win by chasing you away. You're very well liked here by many, and your friends will miss you if you leave. They need you as much as you need them.

there is a lot of things we dont know about you but what we know is that today you have been shaken by some mean people, it doesnt change the fact that everyone is trying to help you. Dont let people you have never seen put you down, they dont even exist for real!!!

i know im always going 2 have mixed oppnions but i really dont need comments where im made 2 feel bad cause ive had that all my life and i really dont need that on a chat site that is suppose 2 help not make ppl feel worse i appreaciate all your help i cant help im feeling shit i thank all the ppl who are being understanding about me but rite now i just want 2 leave dont c the point staying now

PLEASE DON'T LEAVE
PLEASE DON'T LEAVE
PLEASE DON'T LEAVE

I WILL MISS YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tehn take a break for a bit. Go for a walk, or go watch some TV til you feel a bit better and then come back. Sometimes a bit of a break is all that's needed to make you feel better.

the point is that there is one troll for 200 good people!!!! thats a very good point :) Bad comments you will get anywhere from everybody like most people. Ignore the fuckers and concentrate on YOU

Hey Man18 - we just recently became friends, and I'd hate that you'd go away so soon.

I'm really similar to you - one comment from someone and I'd be deflated like a balloon and feeling badly about myself...I'd let anything or anyone rattle my cage and I'd just want to run away from the source.

I've been working a lot on seeing myself in a positive light and growing a thicker skin, and it's a long process, but I'm slowly getting there.

Let me just ask you my friend, would you let a person walk into your house, turn all the furniture everywhere, throw all your food on the walls and set it on fire? No..of course not...but that's what you're doing...you're letting people who really don't matter take your power and rattle your mind and heart.

Don't let them.