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im an f'n retard

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this weekend... i went to a party... my bf was supposed to be meeting me at the bar after the party... well at the party... i had to much to smoke/drink... and i kind of got outta hand... i dont remember but aparently i made out with 2 guys at the party!!.... i feel really bad.... making out isnt that bad though right?.. i mean its not like i slept with them or anything... right?.... i need some advice.... should i tell my bf?.. or just hope he doesnt find out?....
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You don't want to hear this but yes it is really bad if you have a boyfriend. Sorry just trying to be hones.
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shit
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Hi Amy. What do you mean by making out? Was it just flirting?

I think you should tell him, but try and pick a good moment. If you don't tell him you will be forever worried. Get it off your chest. Might not be as bad as you think. Will be worse the longer it drags on.
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No way don't tell him, he would not tell you.
If you get caught,
act like you don't even remember, it meant nothing just had too much to drink.
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Hey Amy,
been where you are...not that I like to remember. I didn't tell my husband...and the guilt ate at me. We are divorced now, and very much for the best because I found I was 'acting out' and making bad choices because I was so unhappy in my marriage.

I don't think you're unhappy in your relationship, but are you? Also, will guilt eat you up? I'm easily gobbled up by guilt, so I had to tell him.
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no.. it wasnt just flirting... tongue in mouth, rubbing etc...
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im not unhappy in my relationship.... i have just always been this way... when i drink i go crazy lol... i do feel really guilty... but i dunno... i think i could go without telling him
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whether u tell him or not has to be your decision..not anyone elses.

but lesson learned? not a good idea to get yourself in that predicament again.
xoxo
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I think I'm with janedoe on this one. Lesson learned, don't tell him if he doesn't need to know, and don't get into a similar situation again where you lose control. HUGS to you dear.
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