Oh, hun, you are perfect just the way God mad you. You just have not met the right man yet. You will. My mom always told me when I felt that way that, "there is a lid for every pot". Hang in there.

i like that saying but i just feel awful. i just lost another bf and im just so tired i cant do it on my own im so tired of trying to be perfect and grown up and responsible and so tired of waking up wanting to die. im just so tired!!!!!

i never had a male figure during my life n i need it.

bump

It doesn't matter what you "look like." What matters is what you are. You just haven't met the right guy.

doll... i've asked myself this question a million times... its even become a joke here... my mom says she doesn't wanna get outta bed in the morning or do anything, and my answer, just to be a smartass was
"you wanna do me, everyone says so" cause i've been with a lotta guys who are just one night stands... nobody wants to keep me... i know how you feel, and i know how hard it is not to base your self worth on that, but shit, you can't .... i don't believe that everyone has their soulmate, i don't believe that love is easy or blind, i don't believe in any of that bullshit... but i feel ya... you just have to wait it out, have fun while you can, even though it might not mean anything, have you good sex while you can (but don't be like me... be safe), don't get attached and play the field... see whats out there and eventually you've gotta make some kinda connection. just don't get so down on that shit... find the pople you love, spend oyur time with them and fuck men.... thay're just dirtbags anyway.... as my aunt just told me "use them, don't let them use you" and i totally belive that thats true. you don't need that.

and if they don't find you attractive, then fuck it. my big thing is this: if you don't like me w / my makeup smeared. my hair all crazy, and my braeth reeking like shit... then you're not worth my time...

Nobody wants me either :(

down...everyone has features that are attractive. Looking at your photo, your eyes are probably being hidden by your glasses. I've seen some knock out frames that really makes a person's eye "pop".

ok, last time I saw a post of yours, you were suicidal I believe?
I assume you are better....?

thanks for letting us know....
(Christ!)

I understand why you would want someone special in your life. It is comforting to have someone know you as much as you know them. Someone to pass time with. I am concerned to think that you believe that this will make you want to continue living and not think of suicide. You deal with depression no matter who are with. It does not go away if you get married and have children,ect. Sorry, your depression may be because of the situation. From your pic, I can tell that you beam personality and humor. Like osteron stated behind your glasses are very pretty eyes. someone will come along and notice all of these great qualities about you and more. You just have to hold onto that and be confident. MR. Right is out there and on course to entering your life.

...you are beautiful! :)
Those guys weren't right for you. Try writing a list of the qualities you want in a man. I bet they don't meet all of them. I did this a few times and realized that I have values and I am a good person and I deserve to be with someone who truly cares about me. I slowly started to look inside and began to like who I was. Don't give up, believe in yourself!

You must learn to be comfortable being alone so you can be treated with respect. So next time if a man isn't meeting your needs you can tell him to get lost. You must also learn to love yourself. It is said you cannot share love with another until you fully love yourself.

Bravo star!! It took me a really long time to learn that and now I like being alone better. Im happy with myself in that way at least.

That sounded dirty but I swear I wasnt trying to be.

You are beautiful! Never let anybody tell you otherwise.

BUT, you have to believe that before anybody else does. ;-)

Hugs!