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i should just kill myself...

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This is what my mother just told me. she called and rattled on about how she has no money to get my boys anything for christmas...asked what i was getting them. i told her it was going to be tight this year...and she started screaming at me that i'm lazy and that i should not have had kids and that if i'm that upset with my life i should just kill myself and get it over with!!!!!!! i can't stop sobbing and thank god my family is in bed...please someone tell me i'm not worthless...
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YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS

*hug*

I am sooo sorry she said that to you.
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wow thats wasnt very nice not to be rude but was she drunk???
your not worthless, she has no idea what shes talking about.
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You're not worthless, you're just lost, but your mother sounds crazy, lost and panicing. Don't panic and you'll find your way faster.
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You aren't worthless and your mother sure had some nerve telling you that. What kind of heartless person would tell their own child that? I'm sorry that she upset you so but I think that you should put some distance between you and your mom if she says stuff like that to you. You don't deserve that from anyone. No one does. She's got a problem if she's acting like that toward you.
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YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS.
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she's not drunk...she's just...i don't know. i feel bad enough that i can't give my kids everything they want...but they are good kids! they understand that money don't grow on trees ya know? they're good kids...i feel soooooooooo bad right now.
starfish
starfish
God Lord, was your mom drunk?????

She was WAAAAAYYYY oout of line on that one.

I am so sorry.

YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!

(and neither are your children -- she sounds like someone to stay far away from -- VERY toxic.)


((((BIG HUGZ!!))))
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don't listen to her, and don't take it personally. she sounds stressed out and she chose the wrong words. your ARE worth something. let no one tell you anything different!
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dont feel bad we have all been there Im there now to its xmas. kids will only remeber whats really important. its not about the toys and stuff. dont feel bad really really!!!!
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I can't believe your mom would say that to you. that actually makes me angry. how could a mother say that to there own daughter. stay away from her. don't worry i'm on a tight budget to.
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i know that what she says isn't true...it's just that when someone that you want to love you says stuff like that, it's hard to take. i have always wanted her to love me...and i've just never been enough for her.
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she shouldn't have said any of that to her own child. i don't know why she would say that to you, but it is def. untrue.

maybe she's just unhappy with herself
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I have never heard a story like this until now.It breaks my heart to hear a mother say that to there own daughter. It doesn't matter how old you are.I wish there was a way to make it better. I can give you hugs. big hugs for you.
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thank you all so much...i am exhausted all of a sudden. i think i will go to bed and snuggle against my hubby...maybe that will make me feel better. you all are wonderful, kind people. thank you again.
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i have never been goodenough for my mom either. She alwys makes comments to me. Truth is, you are worth something, you wouldn't be here if you weren't!!! You have to believe that...you just HAVE to.
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