Ok I'm not sure what to do about a family problem I'm dealing with that is causeing me and my husband a lot of guilt and depression. His parents have never been able to manage money and have always been one paycheck away from the streets, he remembers living in a campground one year as a kid. There is no excuse for their issues just plain stupidity. Well his mother is constantly laying guilt trips on him about there money issues and he feels the responsibility to bail them out. I graduated from college Saturday and she ruined the day because she sat in the audience with my husband crying the blues about how she is afraid they might take her house. My husband is being manipulated for money and he will not speak up for us. We are not responsible to take care of people that are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves, yet my husband feels nothing but guilt for having any finacial success.
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