Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
I migrated to US in '06 and I haven't met a single friend whom I can talk to. I tried joining organizations, businesses and activities around my town area, but still cannot find the right people to be friends with. I know I don't have problem making friends. I have lots of great friends back in my home country. I am married, so he is almost the only person I ever talk to. But now, things are falling apart for us, because of something that we cannot agree on. It's personal but serious enough to put an end to our marriage. I don't know where to go, or who to talk to. I feel so alone in this world. I don't know how to approach my family if I am divorced, but I want to go home to them. I don't like where I am now. Is there anyone out there who can help?
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My MIL had a stroke, but the stars really were in alignment for her:background: the DIL and son in this story live in San Diego, we live in Los AngelesI tend to start my stop watch when "things" happen1) She was talking on the phone to a DIL, and DIL noticed the slurred speech.2) DIL told her husband to call my wife, then me (wife was at the gym, and not reachable)3) I was not at the gym due to...
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My dad's health is really bad. When he starts running a fever he refuses to follow doctors instructions to immediately get medical attention. This would prevent him from having to go into the hospital. So EVERY TIME he has a cold, he ends up in the hospital. Since he is doing it to himself, if he goes this time I am not going to visit him.
I don't like where I am now, either. Maybe we could trade? LOL!
(Dog not included in trade.)
The best advice I can give you at this point with the information you have given is make as many friends on here as possible and maybe it will help you to make friends where you live now. (Boost your self-esteem.) This is an excellent place to make new friends who can help with whatever road blocks you come across!
Jennifer
that are going through or have been through break ups you have found the right place.
Welcome to the States I migrated 17 years ago yesterday
Relationships Evaluate.
Do we continue to get involved in relationships with people who emotionally reject us?
Do we let ourselves be used as a doormat for others in the hope that they will love us and approve of us? Or do we surround ourselves with relationships who encourage us tell us we are worth while, special and remind of us of our beauty, never criticizes us and be there when we need them?
Or do we surround ourselves unconsciously with relationships with people that we feel comfortable and familiar with? When we are troubled and confused, we are attracted to troubled, disturbed, confused personalities.
Relationships are complicated because people are complicated. We each have our own ideas, values and hopes and they cant always be the same as the ones we love.
Whether we accept or turn down a request, agree or disagree with someones point of view, we can still treat the other person with respect and curtsey. I can say, No gently
and lovingly as we can say,Yes
We used to think living meant surviving from Crisis to Crisis we will continues this as adults because it was the only way we knew. When we do not know how to respond to a situation to day why not try responding with kindness and that is what we should receive back.
The company we keep rubs of on us and we on them. We influence each others thoughts and behaviours through a cycle of interactions.
Breaking our attraction to unhealthy relationships begins with our own self-acceptance and self-love. We break the cycle by choosing people that have the same personalities
Like self-acceptance, self-love and confidence remember it rubs of both ways.
We need to avoid those that put us down and treats us with no respect, no love and that attempts to keep us down and detract from our personal healing, and we keep the company of affirming people that will nurture and encourage us to be our best and see we have a true value and who helps us grow and fulfill or potential and dreams.
We find ourselves surrounded by people who love and care for themselves and who mirror our own inner beauty and self worth we are more likely to mirror the same.