Oh Bella, I'm here.....

Do I even want to know what this is about???

Do you know what I mean? ever since those threads came up some of my so called friends are not being good freinds I don't get any feed back from them anymore. I have to say there one particuler individual I have in mine. I'm not a prued. I am happely married. sorry I dont devulge every sexy kinky act we ever did. I felt it was sacred, between my husband and I. But this was what I was afraid of. That thread changed friendships and loyalties....my thoughts I guess.

I'm with you all the way here Bella...but hope this post is read and the situation is remedied for you

I'll be ok. It just got me kind mad. I tried to stay away from any sex posts cause that out of 1000,s and 1000, of post, we most defintly agree. There is at least on friend I think I may have lost. Then who knows, maybe he/she wasn;t real friend anyway I guess. Anyway, no worries I'm. I have some great friends her in real life. I'm off to bed now. I guess I am seeing the greater distruction now of a thread like that.

That was what I was trying to say when I posted my thoughts, but I just got a bashing for it....hmm wonder if it will happen again????
G'nite Bella

night ruby and all. Lets talk about this again tomorrow.

bella, i wasn't involved in that thread much either... i would occationally check in-read -1 or 2 posts, check out. i don't have a opinion one way or the other, it's good if it helps others.... i'm just more private... i'm single, but if i had a husband or bf, i would consider our sex life to be sacred .. i totally understand your views. if someone based friendship on that thread alone, i'd have to let it go. no judgement, it's a matter of trust between two ppl.

Haven't gotten to know you yet, Bellastina, but I identify with what you're saying. I'm adventurous, but i don't want to get into the details about my sex life publicly....

Hi Bella,

I am with both u and meow2U on this one; as it may be helpful to others, I, personally, feel that my sex life with my husband is sacred, and I don't indulge in those kinds of threads, however, if it helps some, so be it. But, just to let u know, I had made a friend once, and it turned out that the person wasn't really a friend, just someone who wanted everything to evolve around them, and still do, as far as i can see. the point i am trying to make is, i am glad that the light was exposed on this person for me because now I have REALLY good, true friends that have gotten to know me, and value my friendship, as I do theirs, so don't sweat it! I know it hurts at first, but it seems like u r a nice person, and are worth more then that "friendship!"

i agree and am sorry that happened to you. i don't think that part of my life is their business either so you aren't alone there. good luck and feel better!

Goodnight Bella xx

bella im here xx

Bella you look real cute in your pics and your hubby is a very lucky guy. All the more so for having a girl who respects HIS privacy.

Hey bella. Sorry to hear you are having a tough time with a friend. I am sure that it will all blow over soon. You'll see. Maybe she,he or they just needed a laugh or something.