Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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deleted_user 10/31/2007

A person I really care about is having his third heart surgery in the morning. The odds don't sound very good. I just hate it when they tell you "it can go either way". Its a very risky surgery. He will die if he doesn't have it, and he may die if he does have it. I think those odds absolutely suck!!!!! What's even worse, I won't be able to get to the hospital before his surgery, because of work, kids,& travel. What if he doesn't know how much he really means to me. I never got a chance to tell him. I can't use the phone because he can not hear.

deleted_user 10/31/2007

your both in my prayers

deleted_user 10/31/2007

thinking of him n fingers crossed xx

deleted_user 10/31/2007

i can kinda sorta relate. My dad is very sick w emphezema & i cant call him for the same reason, his hearing sux!!!
ill be sending positive thoughts ur way. Just keep thinking positive!!
hugs
Cathy

deleted_user 10/31/2007

you are both in my hopes and prayers as well.

deleted_user 10/31/2007

PRAYYERS

deleted_user 10/31/2007

Sending positive thoughts and prayers his way.

deleted_user 10/31/2007

thinking of you and your friend x

deleted_user 10/31/2007

many blessings... will keep you & your family in my thoughts..

ZAZAS 10/31/2007

Prayers for you and your friend, that must be a terrible strain on you. God Bless you.

deleted_user 10/31/2007

Never give up hope.....never

Magdalena8 10/31/2007

What a wonderful friend you are, please don't put the guilt trip on yourself already. You're doing what you can do and a prayer chain really helps. Hopefully you will get the chance to tell him how you feel. People sense these things anyway. Healing prayers go out to all of those affected by this, may the surgeons hands be blessed. May they be guided divinely to help save this mans life. Amen

deleted_user 10/31/2007

you are both in my prayers

deleted_user 10/31/2007

Dont worry he knows how you feel about him. People we love and care about know how we feel even when we dont say it. I will pray for your friend and you.

deleted_user 10/31/2007

I'm sure he knows how you feel - and afterwards you can tell him, have hope

deleted_user 10/31/2007

I hope everything turns out all right

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