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Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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I was thinking about the apparent "hell breaking loose" on this site, especially on the weekends. From what I can see, it is often a simple misunderstanding that causes the chaos. This often results in people leaving the site, each for their own reasons, which to me is sad, as they then lose at least some of the support in their life. I thought to myself; "why is this happening?" (I'm not pissed off about it; I'm saddened, more than anything.) I did have a thought that might be relevant, and hopefully helpful. I would like other members to offer their feedback. Perhaps by putting all our minds together; we can collectively stop all that chaos, or at least minimize it.
Here was my thought; During the week, most folks have limited time on their hands, and are distracted by the normal realities of their busy workweek. Hence, people might be less inclined to take things the wrong way. On the weekends, however, there are less distractions, more free time, and perhaps the reality of the depression that we have in common weighs more heavily on each of us, making us more sensitive than usual. What are your thoughts? All comments welcome, and I promise I won't take anything the wrong way.:O)
Here was my thought; During the week, most folks have limited time on their hands, and are distracted by the normal realities of their busy workweek. Hence, people might be less inclined to take things the wrong way. On the weekends, however, there are less distractions, more free time, and perhaps the reality of the depression that we have in common weighs more heavily on each of us, making us more sensitive than usual. What are your thoughts? All comments welcome, and I promise I won't take anything the wrong way.:O)
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This group has alot of board discussions, and the general census is to keep disagreements, negative feedback private and away from the boards.
Often I see hurtful, messages about other members on some one's hugs.....then you think, who can I trust. Are they part of the negativity or just on the receiving line.
I don't know, if debates where left out in public, then others can offer insights and hopefully stop the madness before it starts. I am not talking about taking sides, just each person would have to consider others view too. And everyone doing what is best for the group, not just themselves. It is a wonderful feeling to care about something other than yourself......it is a start ot healing.
One thing I have always told my daughter, if they are talking trash about them, you could well be next in line. Otherwords, don't hang with the gossip. If you want to know something........ask.
Most of these arguments have such a simple explanation when you stop and think about it. If everything was out in the open, there is not place for gossip. Ok, I don't mean you personal business. I use the boards to interact with other members, my journal is for my more private thoughts, or some positive humor for my friends. Hugs I give to those on my friend list, or may send on to someone I strongly agree with.
I don't know, I just think the negativity would die of natural causes if exposed to the light of day.
Maybe I am wrong, but most everyone leaves due to some private battle between members and it takes away from the group.
We all come from different places, different social classes, different levels of depression. We are the same in that we are coming to this place for some comfort and support but other than that we are truly different from one another.
If everyone could be a little more understanding and not so quick to judge, maybe there would be more peace here?
And if everyone could keep perspective on the fact that this is a discussion thread, a place to air ideas and maybe as for a few suggestions. Keep it at that. This is not real life...this is just a tool to help you with your real life.
Just my two cents.
I also think that alot of the things talked about on the boards are so personal that some people find it hard to not get hurt and react.