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I just had my heart ripped out of my chest

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and now i really really hate this guy. Like last night he shows up drunk at 1.30am becos i told him i never want to talk to him again. He says he doesnt think that that is right and that we should start a relationship. So i am finally happy after likeing him and getting no attention whatsoever for about 2 months, I am so happy. Then he just texts me telling emits wrong adn we cant see each other anymore. OK I am still so angry and dont know what to do i think its the lousiest thing...(nearly) that a guy could do. Im just glad i didnt do anything with him last night
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Hugz. Im sorry.:(
sja
sja
I am glad you didn't do anything with him either. You will find the right man for you. It just takes time.
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i come off so desperate too. thats so not attractive
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you obviously don't come off that desperate you knocked the schmooozeball back don't be too hard on yourself we all need to feel loved sometimes x
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but when he txt me i feel bad cos i called him and left a horrible message.
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well..txt'ing something like that is way lowclass, darlin'...consider yourself saved from an ass. :)

and maybe work on the neediness? man, i used to be that way when i was younger. ugh. xoxo smile honey and be kind to yourself xoxo
sja
sja
Jane is right. He should have atleast given you the respect to talk to you in person. You don't need someone like that. There are too many other nice guys out there who are looking for a girl just like you.
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Matters of the heart are the worst. I'm sorry you feel bad. Never trust drunks!
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"never trust drunks"
*writes it down in her list of things never to do again*
good advice
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Sounds tough but at least you can be clear about what to do and that is to get this guy out of your life and get people that are kind to you in your life. Treat yourself well also. Hugs...
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the right person will come along and accept you for who you truly are...all of you!
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