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I hate the word!

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I hate the word Cancer.I just last my grandma july of last year to cancer and now my soon to be husbands grandmother is in the hosptail.they think she has cancer.I hate this word i cant stand it.With all the technolgy why cant they stop this silent killer.I have lost so many people to it.I dont know if i can do this agien I really dont.This women is like my own grandmother and she is really the only thing I have.I am so sick of this stuff.I dont even know what I am doing so wrong to deserve this.I just want everything to end.If its not one thing its another.I dont know if all this is worth it.I am sorry i guess i just needed to vent
Anna
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Anna I am sorry to hear about your losses, I am also sorry you feel as badly as you do, i hate seeing others in pain...I wish there was a magic wand to erase that bad disease. I too have lost loved ones and it hurts so bad, I am so sorry sweetie and by all means you go right ahead and vent.
starfish
starfish
God bless your grandmas and you!!

Cancer is very scary, especially when it happens in your own family. All you can do is take the best care of yourself that you can, including not stressing or fearing cancer itself -- that also weakens your immune system.
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Vent all you want... I've lost friends and family to cancer, too. My mother was just diagnoses with cancer in her good kidney. She's in for a battle and I'm not ready to lose my mom, so I kind of know how you are feeling.

Thankfully not everyone dies from cancer... let's hope they found it in time so your husband's grandmother can beat it, too.
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Think how your husband's grandmother feels then, it's probably equally as scary for her and she needs your love and support more than anything right now.

In the circle of life there are 2 constants...life and death. Life is precious and I don't think many people want to die alone...be there for her and let her know that she is loved.
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Cancer is a bad thing. I know it sucks to see someone close like that have it. Hugs to you sweetie!
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i'm sorry 2 hear that. try 2 stay positive. there are medical break throughs every day.
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thank you everyone for you suporrot and kind words sometimes its just hard to find the brightside to be suporrtive ya know but thank you everyone.They think she has cancer in her right kidney i am just hopeing its not thank you
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I agree I hate the word too. I lost my aunt in 1995. Right now a girlfriend is going thru a terrible event, her mom-uteran, her dad-throat. I can't imagine.

I am terribly sorry for what you and your family are going thru.
Magdalena8
Magdalena8
My grandmother died of breast cancer many many years ago. A few weeks ago my friend Susan had her right breast removed. She started chemo and is tolerating well. Cancer sucks, AIDS sucks, that gives us all kinds of cancers, and a friend here on DS is dying from liver cancer due to Hep C it all sucks
Bless those grannies and hope you can give strength and support to your hubby's granny.
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