hmmm welcome to ds

have you talke dto your husband baout this? Do you have a Dr. to go see? A therapist even?

abake, Pregnancy is very scary and it does change our lives. Some for the good and some for the bad. Were you planning to get pregnant? It sounds like your hubby needs to change his life a bit. Believe it or not, kids change our lives for the best at times. You will meet other people where you live now. There are parenting classes, toddler groups, ect. If motherhood is something you are not wanting right now then you know what the answer is there. Two choices only...adoption or abortion. Maybe you can start in this community like you did your other. Seek activities outside the home, sign up for some classes.

Welcome to DS sweetheart. Your life and Body have gone through a lot of HUGE changes in a short period of time, talk to your doctor about how you feel and keep coming here there are many shoulders worth leaning on here

and though youre stressed over it , congrats on the baby, my one true joy in life, my reason for living is my little girl. Wouldnt trade her for the world even though the struggles of parenthood (single in my case) can sometimes seem unbearable

i feel that when i speak to my husband about all of this, it just starts a fight.i am happy about having a baby, i know that it will be great to have a child, but with all of this stress, and with a baby, i cant take medication.( i had to quit smoking as well so thats another thing that makes this hard)

because of all of this, communicatin has become very hard. i know that i have lashed out and said hurtfull things to him, but i just feel like my deprssion has gotten so bad,and he doesnt seem to care. he just gets mad at me and says " maybe you should talk to someone else about this". which may be true, but shouldnt my husband want to help? isnt it his job to talk to me, to support me???

You have gone through quite a few changes in a short amount of time. You really do need to keep the communication open with your husband. Let him know how you feel. Secondly, I'd seek out a psychologist...so you'll have an outlet that you can count on. Congrats on your baby...that is really, really awesome.

Maybe your husband is scared too and he doesn't have anything to give at this point. There is nothing wrong with seeking outside help. Depression is a difficult illness an not everyone understands what we(depressives) go through. Best Wishes

Yes, your husband should be your number one supporter...but if he can't be, find a psychologist who can. Believe me, it helps.

thanks for listening. sometimes its just good to say these things to someone other then him. i dont really have anyone here that i can talk to.
see you soon

There's always someone here to listen. :) Take care.

ask yourself a few questions---why did u move in the first place---did u want to move...?---were there discussions before the move...about how u felt--have u talked to therapist--family?---maybe u can get involved in this community---?

i mean the new town u moved too--that community...sry wasn't clear

Okay... but did anybody twist your arm or force you to do any of these things. If so, put him in jail! You do have options... leave him, have an abortion, go home...
It is not the end of the world.

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