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Situation:
Nanny situation...
I am in grad school, having a lot of troubles there... so in order to do at least sufficiently, I need a nanny's help.
My daughter usually goes to YMCA during the week and I hired ONE OF HER CURRENT TEACHERS. It turned out that instead of play with her, she was drugging her to stores and her own house, taking care for her own grand child.
I wrote with the women not to do it and explained her how would I like to do. She listened and...
Now she works 2 days in my daughter's group, in these days my daughter coming with dyper rush, her locker completely disorganized...Today this teacher told my daughter-- would you like cookie? Julia said yes, they pretty hungry by the time I am coming to pick her up. And then, the teacher said-- well your mom is not allowing you, since soon the dinner"... and left. You just can imagine how my daughter cryed... we were the last to leave and one person told me-- how bad if the child do not want to go with her mom.
My husband told me that I am an idiot allowing a person from child care to come home and take care of our daughter. Thank you.
I cannot find better child care in terms of cost and location, but... I am really worry for my daughter.
I feel that speaking with the director won't give anything, since the center is short of personal and they count each worker... so.
I feel that there is no exit or any decision from the situation... help?
Nanny situation...
I am in grad school, having a lot of troubles there... so in order to do at least sufficiently, I need a nanny's help.
My daughter usually goes to YMCA during the week and I hired ONE OF HER CURRENT TEACHERS. It turned out that instead of play with her, she was drugging her to stores and her own house, taking care for her own grand child.
I wrote with the women not to do it and explained her how would I like to do. She listened and...
Now she works 2 days in my daughter's group, in these days my daughter coming with dyper rush, her locker completely disorganized...Today this teacher told my daughter-- would you like cookie? Julia said yes, they pretty hungry by the time I am coming to pick her up. And then, the teacher said-- well your mom is not allowing you, since soon the dinner"... and left. You just can imagine how my daughter cryed... we were the last to leave and one person told me-- how bad if the child do not want to go with her mom.
My husband told me that I am an idiot allowing a person from child care to come home and take care of our daughter. Thank you.
I cannot find better child care in terms of cost and location, but... I am really worry for my daughter.
I feel that speaking with the director won't give anything, since the center is short of personal and they count each worker... so.
I feel that there is no exit or any decision from the situation... help?
deleted_user
can ur parents or in laws help
deleted_user
really are you kidding me? its your daughter of course speaking out will help!!!! and if it dosent go some where else jesus there other places that provide child care come on get inpowered if you dont who else will!!!!
deleted_user
Nope, they live in russia and I in the US. My hubby lives in other state.
deleted_user
damn i think id ask anyone besides that lady to watch her
deleted_user
sorry that was a bit harsh!!!! but who cares if their under staffed if the teacher sucks tell them its not your fault its theirs and they will have to do somthing about it!!!! my mom was on the board of directors for the ymca in wyoming and if a child care worker was living up to par then my mom would want to know!!!!!!!! sp speak up and show your child that when their is a problem to stand up for them selves.
deleted_user
The trouble is that this lady her day time kindergarten teacher. Of course I found somebody else for the weekends, but when this women my child's classroom teacher, I feel extremely worry. Because Julia spent whole 2 weekly days with her.
deleted_user
My child is three years old. She often even cannot know what the problem is. And she is not good speaker and shy, well... like me.
deleted_user
Get your daughter out of there. If you can't find a loving place for her than you need to put grad school on hold. Tough decision, and I don't mean to be harsh, but your child should come first. You won't be able to live with yourself if she continues to be hurt like this.
deleted_user
well then dont excpect anything to change just get use to where your daughter is because your to shy to SPEAK UP!!!! come on how are you in grad school....im sorry but this is just so sad that you are having this problem and you wont do anything about it im sorry im normally really nice but dang like i said eirlyer use your head and of course your daughter cant defend herself thats why god created women to defend their babies and to teach them how to take care of them selfes but if they ever need it their moms can step in and help....
deleted_user
thats your child and she needs to be taken care of properly,fuck all of the other nonsense that the daycare is talking,if they cannot afford to hire the required people to tend to those babies then they need to shut down or do things the right way if this was me i would show my ass and wouldn't care who feelings i hurt,that's your baby and you have to stand up for her.
deleted_user
Very funny... of course the center won't shut and they won't fire anybody...I will speak tomorrow the first thing in the morning. But if the women stays, who told that the things change.
johnnyboy
Reply #8. WAS RIGHT ON THE MONEY! Did you read it? Did you get it? Repeat this 10X "I will take my kid out of there!!!!" Now Repeat this 10X "My kid comes 1st Grad School 2nd!!!!"
deleted_user
This is your child, your flesh and blood. you cannot compromise the wellbeing of your child because of convenience. Get her the hell out of that place
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