My Mother bought me some garage sale furniture five years ago. When I first moved into my house. I have been using my china cabinet and table for five years. I guess when she give us stuff it never really belongs to us. I told her I was thinking of selling the china cabinet and replacing in with furniture that matches. I was hoping to sell it. She said she wanted it back. I asked her why and she said that maybe one of the other kids can use it. I told her it would be hard to see it in someone else house. She still wants it back. Am I making too much of this!!!!!! Is it me I give her everything back. When someone gives something to you isnt it yours. Be truthful with me. Dont just agree with me to make me feel better. I dont know what is right. With my family they are so into everything we do. I hear about every little detail about my brothers. I got rid of a couch away recently because it was old and falling apart. and everyone in the family had a remark. I dont know why I feel bad when I am around them. Every thing they say hurts my feeling. Is it me???? It is like we cannot make a move with out advice or being told what to do, or being made to feel bad about our decisions. If I gave something to someone. I would not ask for it back. I dont know why I feel this way. I have a lot of guilt associated with my family. Whats right? Please answer truthfully. I just want to know why I feel so upset. I know I will give it to her. Its just any decision I make is not good enough. I cant even have a garage sale because I am affraid she will stop by and critisize me. Maybe it me. I thought the china cabinet belonged to me?
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