Hurting yourself is never the answer to internal pain, you have experienced enough pain without further adding to the pain.
Please try talking to someone, please let us help you
You can get through this
xxx

It is very hard to get over an ex,..sometimes only time helps heal our hearts,..I know what you are going through..Perhaps staying busy,.making plans with others could help,..try not to sit home alone,..but if you have to be home alone,..maybe watching some movies will distract you,...I am so sorry you are going through this,...*hug*

this is the worst thing i have to go through i got out of the behavorial health hospital on the 24 of feburary. she broke up with me without trying to resolve the problem which was i was going to fast in the relationship. it really hurts

I have to say that if she wasn't willing to work on the relationship then she wasn't truly the girl for you sweetie.
I know that it still hurts. These things feel good when we start but the breaking up is damn near hell!
The breakup is fresh in your mind. And in your heart. As time passes this will get easier. You will find a girl who you deserve and who is willing to put the time in to the relationship
xxx

I know it hurts,..but,.you can't control what another person is going to do,..you can only control how you deal with it,.
Since you just got out of a behavioral health facility you must be seeing a therapist,.or a Doctor,..make sure you keep up your appts. with them,..you will need them to talk to,..they can help you through this,..

Sending hugs and warm thoughts your way, I know you feel like this is the end of your life but I promise you that no matter how much it hurts today it won't be like this forever. Sit down and make a list of reasons she was wrong for you. It may be hard because we tend to idealize people that we miss, but start small. Like she didn't like the way you organized your silverware drawer or she wouldn't clip your toenails for you. Her farts smelled bad, she didn't get along with your cat, she had a funny-looking mole on her butt that really grossed you out. She called you a name once, she was selfish and wasn't there for you, she looked like Frankenstein without her makeup.... the sky's the limit. Sometimes it helps to really lay out why she wasn't perfect, and don't feel bad about it. No one has to see the list, no one has to know what you said about her. Get down and dirty. Then write a list of reasons that you were too good for her. I know this is hard, so I'm hoping that those reading this post will chime in too. I can think of reason #1 - you cared more for her than she did for you, which means that you deserve someone who loves you and she deserves to be alone if she's going to be so selfish. Actually, you could probably split that into two or three reasons.

You can get past this honey and you deserve to. Keep your chin up!

Relationship don't always work out. At your age you are going to have lots of relationships some good ones and some bad ones. That is part of life. You are mcuh to young to be serious about anyone. This is a time in your life to have fun. To enjoy life to work on what you want in your future. Don't blame your ex for backing off and ending this relationship she probally was to young to understand and to handle your problems. Chalk is up as an experience in life. I am not down playing how much it hurts. It hurts like hell. You will always remember this love. Whether it is with fond memories or bad ones. But the thing is you need to move on, Your heart will heal. Give it time. Don't dwelled on the past don't listen to sad songs, or talk to people about her. Or try to contact her. Let it go. Work on making a new life without her. It will be hard but like Scaredand said you have had enough time to pick up the pieces and move on. No more pain. Stop hurting yourself. Talk it out with someone that can help.

you are really helpful here i am just going over some of the ideas you guys have thank you

i am thinking about doing some art to get my mind off of it