recently married not 3yrs yet, we were both widowed and are in our late 50's. I require afffection, touch, an occasional hug and kiss, hello and goodbye etc. This was part of my previous married life, not this one. There is virtually no physical contact other than every 2 week conjugal visit. No kissing even during intercourse, doesn't even talk, pretty mechanical, little if any foreplay. If I attempt to initiate any of the above I am rebuffed. This makes me feel isolated, depressed and unloved. Any suggestions?
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