I am having issues making my husband be compasionate and understanding about my depression and anxiety. He tries, I am not going to bad mouth him but he thinks I can snap out of it and I cant. It has been two yrs. Wouldnt that be an indication that is not easy. He has visited my therapist, she has spoken to him directly about the things that he should do but it seems that he wants to help me his way and in his own time. Its like asking for vanilla ice cream with chocolate topping and getting chocolate ice cream with vanilla topping. Is sort of the same so what is the problem. Maybe I am being unreasonable. I just think that if I outloud say \"you can give me a call throughout the day to check on me and that will make me feel good\" should be easy enough. I am not asking for an expensive ring or a trip to Paris. I jst get very frustrated and often feel ignored and alone. What kind of imput do you guys have?
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