how do you carry on when you keep getting kicked in the teeth all the time. i am so damn fed up. my husband and i are splitting up. i still have to live in the same house as him. and its awful. then i got my letter from the dla saying my appeal had been turned down again. so i go to a tribunal now. i had test results in there of a test i did in the states. its an unpersonal test. and he wrote what i could and couldnt do. then my doctor wrote aletter too. saying i suffere with depression and with my marriage breaking down thats making it worse than ever. plus he told them very disabled and cannot walk more than a few yards without severe pain. he also told them i need help with my personl care, bathing, showering, cooking meals etc. and they wont take that into consideration. i dont see how they have turned me down yet again when the letter from my doc and the test results show i need help. i am so sick of it here. here i am disabled through many things. and i get turned down, but if i said i was polish, iraqi, cosovan, any other natainality. i would be handed it all to me on a plate. what is wrong with this picture. i need the money. and they get given it.
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