At work I am always 'nice' and 'helpful'. I try to be cheerful and work extra hard to do more than my share. I will go and get an item for someone or compliment others on their looks or skills. I don't think it is appreciated and as a matter of fact, testy people are admired more. Underneath my perfectionism is a person who wants to be complimented back. If I pull back and keep to myself people wonder what is wrong or think I'm no fun.I work in a small work environment that is quite stressful- and with all women. Do any of you suffer with a tremor(hands)? I do,and because of it try too hard to be 'normal'.People don't understand, judge me and I try to be perfect to overcompensate. Does anyone have any suggestions? Please help!I'm sick of trying so hard.
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