i don't think my brother likes or cares about me anymore but i don't even know why. i have been trying to call him for a month now and he never answers his phone. he just doesn't want to talk to me. the last time i went home he only talked to me when he needed a ride for work or when he wanted me to take him somewhere during his lunch break. that was early july and i have been trying to contact him and he hasn't spoken to me since. i know when we were teens that he thought i was lame and weird and he probably still does now but i never knew he didn't like me anymore. i remember when we little kids we were always so close. we would fight for each other and we spent alot of time together. i remember when we played this game it was called friend or foe. and everytime i matched up with someone else we would all choose foe and lose but then when i matched up with him something made me choose friend and he chose friend also and we won and got all excited and gave each a big hug. i used to use that memory to define our relationship but now our relationship doesn't exist and i just don't know how it drifted away. i feel like i should be the one to fix things between us cuz i'm older but i don't know how to do that if he won't except my calls and i live 4 hours away. how can i make him like me again?
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