Depression Support Group
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We were inseparable for our entire lives. Sometimes we lived together and when we weren't together we were on the phone 24/7 talking, watching movies together or reading to each other over the phone sometimes. We had everything in common, I thought. We took so many trips together and basically ever memory from my past includes her. She just left me at a hotel room one morning, said she was going to work and would be back later like nothing. I sat there watching the time, the room wasn't even paid for for the next day yet and I didn't know it. We were staying there temporarily because we were looking for a place to rent together, I thought. She was using my car cause hers got repossessed cause she couldn't afford it. So I was left stranded all day while she was off with my car. When it got dark and she still didn't show up or call me and I didn't have a cell phone then, just my lap top and the hotel phone. I called my friend jody and he came and got me. I was crying and confused and so upset. We reported her as a missing person and I was homeless for a week, going from friends house to friends house and not eating or sleeping only crying. When I got a email from her saying she just had to leave but couldn't tell me why I knew she was fine and had stolen my car and left on purpose. It's been 5 months and I still don't know why, she won't tell me anything and has been deleting and blocking my emails. I can't call her cause I don't know her number anymore and I don't know where she is living except somewhere in Tampa FL. She has been asking me to send her the car title to the car she stole recently, she asked me about 4 times now. I know she wants it badly and I thought maybe I would send it cause the police will never find her anyway and I don't really want her arrested that wouldn't make me feel better. Keeping the title would only be a form of revenge and I don't want revenge. Maybe in the long run sending it to her will help and if she never speaks to me again anyway, then at least I will know I tried by doing that. :( I don't know what to do!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
she does not want to talk to you, let her go for a few months, then try again. But dont let yourself feel guilty or bullied, she might be in a horrible situation herslef but you need to think about you. Hugs
I know, because I had a friend do this to me also. We had to hire a tow truck to go and reposses our own vehicle. My friend was a user, and abuser, and now you have one in your life. You didn't do anything, it all has to do with her own problems, don't give in to her threats!
Hugs. Take care of yourself.
Dont give her your car, give her what she deserves; the police and a big talking to xx