Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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deleted_user 03/27/2007

I hate them, I hate them, I hate them! well most of them. I have only found one good doctor. where are they? I went to the doctors today, for the first ever time about being depressed. I'm sure you all understand that it takes a lot of courage to do that, well it did for me anyway. I asked to be referred to see a counsellor and she said well we don't just refer anyone you know.....completely dismissing me. To which I burst into tears (very embarrassing) and she got so uncomfortable she couldn't even look at me! and then burst out laughing when I said I was studying psychology, because yeah, no doctor or psychologist gets mental health issues do they? and I left with a leaflet telling me about self-help brochures I could look at, well thank you! like I haven't already tried looking at everything!

Sorry for the rant, I was just so upset, and now I'm just more angry.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

I despise doctors. They think they're better than anyone else and most of them couln't care less about their patient's well-being.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

I also hate doctors and have not found the right one.It sounds like you need to try and find another one.She should not have laughted at you and then send you home with a leaflet.She should have given you a referal to a psychologist.I hope that you find the right doctor soon.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

The doctor that I went to was very nice she explained thing to me and when I did start crying she handed me tissues and put her hand on my shoulder. I just wanted to tell you this because there are good doctors out there.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

Any doctor who laughs at you should have their license pulled! Actually, it's good that you're angry, because you think clearer than when you're depressed. I agree. Keep looking for the doctor that meets your needs. Eventually you will find the professional who will work for you not against you. It's a challenge, but well worth it.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

I know there are good doctors out there, I just want to find one. I want to leave that practice (I've actually moved address so technically I should) but its the doctor who is in charge of the practice who is fantastic. And all my family go there. Maybe I should phone back and ask for an appointment with him. Though he's not in a lot so I might have to wait a while. But it will be better than seeing someone like her again.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

hey, look up oorange on here. She's a doctor and she gives good advice on how to handle doctor's. If you're dealing with depression, some, well, a lot of doctors feel uncomfortable with it and make you feel inferior. YOU'RE NOT. You just need to find a doc that'll listen :o) lovenhugs

deleted_user 03/27/2007

well i am upset with my doc office also! i have not been on any meds for my depression for almost 2 weeks and they don't have time to fit me in this week, what the hell! what if i became sucidial or something, because they don't have time for me! grrr! i want to go to a new doc, but i love my doc and i don't feel like having to go thru the history and crap all over again!

BeckyK 03/27/2007

That doctor has no business being a doctor! That really burns me! I have been to a few like that and it makes me mad everytime! I hope you get a new doctor! I wish I could find a doctor for me like my boy's pediatrician! When the boys were first born, I was so emotional! And when my youngest was 2 months old he had the RSV virus and I was so afraind he would stop breathing, my husband was out of town, my older son had a double ear infection. I was a mess! The boy's doctor was so kind and understanding and tried his best to make me feel better. I just wish I could find a doctor for me that would be so kind!

deleted_user 03/27/2007

Believe me over the years I have seen my share of good and bad doctors. My current doctor is great. I saw him last Friday and he spent 30 minutes with me talking about how my new meds were working. He always takes time to listen and before he leaves the room he always ask if there is any thing else that I need. He is kind and compassionate. He also wears jeans and a casual shirt (no white coat) which helps me feel comfortable.
I'm sorry you had such a bad experience. That doctor should have never laughed at you. Sounds to me like she needs help.
There are good doctors out there just keep looking.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

Doctors are the most arrogant professionals that I have ever dealt with and I've dealt with all kinds. I'm a former LPN/PH and have worked with them in clinics, hospitals, and nursing homes. It takes some time to find a good doctor and when you do, hang on to him/her for dear life.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

My doctor used to be really good. I've been going to him since I was a kid. His wife died a few years back of cancer and he stays so medicated that he's kinda lost on how to medicate anybody else. I love my daughters' ped's. They're really good and my baby's CF doctor is pretty decent, too. There are some out there, but they're hard to find.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

I cannot stand them. I hate talking to them...I hate everything they do

deleted_user 03/27/2007

You should report her to the head of the clinic. You asked to see a counselor and she didn't even ask you any follow up questions just flat out refused you. She laughed at you. Unbelievable. Strange actually.

deleted_user 03/27/2007

HoneyD,

That was rude and unprofessional th manner in which the Dr. reacted
With an open mind she were to listen as you voice your concerns and then make an analysis. Despite you studdying psychology or not.

This is in her capacity to look into what questions and matters you brought to her attention.

It sure would be nice to report to the Head Dr (hoping she is not).. or possibly the person in charge at the location.

How about looking into a naturopathic Dr? You come across many who sincerely cares about your well being. You may want to check into it.

All in all you deserve to be commended for going to address dealing with depression. Way to Go! Courageous indeed.

Hugs and smiles

deleted_user 03/27/2007

I would call and complain about her laughing in your face. That is not professional at all! I have only had one good doctor in my life and he died about 4 years ago and haven't found another one like him. These stupid doctors these days are just in it for the money. I am not that old but I can remember the days when they genuinely cared.

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