Thanks to my meds, which are finally in balance now, my husband and I have slowly watched my libido disappear. It's completely gone now, and I'm scared of sex because of the disappointment it brings me in seeing my husband able to enjoy himself when I can't get that enjoyment anymore. I used to be able to just let him have his need fulfilled, but I can't stand it anymore and so I gently say no--which is still a slap in the face to someone who's turned on. I don't want to switch meds because it took a good year or so to get me to this point of emotional stability and I don't want to go through all that again, but it's not fair to my husband or myself to leave this situation as it is. Any advice?
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