Bastards! Sorry but I hate theives
Dont be sad be mad.
Bastards!

I felt the same way when someone stole the license plate off my car. I got even more pissed when the apartment manager said, "Oh I noticed that yesterday and thought you were swapping your plates out."

im really sorry too hear that happened there are so many mean ppl in this world

Thank you - I just feel like cryinig and i know it's "just a broken window and radio, but it brings up such trauma for me.

Don't let this get you down...it happened to my car a while back-and I was surprised at how genuinly upset I was...I mean there are so many cars on my road and they only did it to mine. I felt the same, I was outside by myself cleaning it all up, and sticking bags to stop the rain coming in.
It's such a horrible feeling when people you don't even know come along and trash your stuff.
Please don't let it get you down, the people who did it are just scum, your better than them, just get it fixed and keep your head high.
x

oh hun, thats really pants, it's so sad knowing there are people out there who have no respect for any one else's stuff. Gits!

well to a certain extent it is an invasion of privacy

I am the victim and, out of habit, am making it about them, and it's not about them. This is about me, right? And the hassle i have to go through to clean-up their mess, their mess that they laid on me and that feels like such a burden and brings up the compounding effect of how many times i have been in this situation with no help. All by myself.

Your right, you are the victim, but you know what-do not give people who do things like that the satisfaction of letting it get you...you are so above people like that-and they live their life in a way that shows absolutely no respect for anyone or their property.
You CANNOT let this bring you down...things have been destroyed but they can be fixed, and they will be. Don't give into this one-they are not worth it, you are the victim, but your going to brush yourself down, get up and carry on, because that really is the best thing to do.

right now i just feel so vulnerable and this is really making me feel down and i know how down i can get and i am crying like crazy.

Sammy dont let them get to you. Grab yourself some tissues and dont clean up the mess till you feel up to it.

Feel sorry for those bastards who did this because theyre obviously having a really shit life to have to go out and do this and feel better for youself for knowing your better than they are.

That's a great popint and one that i struggle with.

How do i feel better than them when I feel worthless?

try not to let yourself feel like a "victim"...your car was randomly picked by some lowlife which...other than the obvious mess and invasion of privacy..i'm sure has nothing to do with u PERSONALLY.

i say get angry!! how dare them??? dammit!!! try to stay on POINT...THIS issue, ya know what i mean? not let it drag u down unpleasant memory lane.

xoxo i'd come help clean up if i could ;)
Di

Jane Doe - thank you for offering to help clean.

I want to get angry. and then that leads to, "Why can't i get angry?" How do i get angry?

ooooh, honey...i'm sorry. i think not being able to GET angry is just as hard as having TOO MUCH anger.

cussing a lot usually helps me work it up! lol and when you're cleaning up the mess...slam stuff. lol think about what ASSWIPES they'd have to be to do this! ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!! YELL!

but most important...like i said...stay on POINT. it's all too easy to let one issue lead u into ancient issues that have nothing at ALL to do with THIS. (been there, know this)

ok. let's all growl! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! the sons of bitches!!! ahhhhhh!!!!!
xoxoxo