Is she on DS? You come first hun & please try not to worry.

If you feel she is in danger you could try to find where she lives and call emergency for her or find a friend who can. Sorry xo

well after she said she had pills lined up she then sent another message saying she was off to do her housework.i just couldnt work it out.i got a feeling she was playing mind games after i read some of er hugs she had sent to her other friends.

Put her link up here where others who choose to help can find her, so you won't be so overwhelmed. About all you can tell her is to get professional help.

i dont know how she would react if i put her link up here.

it would be a way of getting mroe support for her, and for you matey....if you are concerned....then it is a safe option to do....if she gets upset...well she will get over it...you are doing it out of concern for a friend

I know who you are talking about & she does NOT want her link up please at this time.

If the hugs just come as "hey I heard you could use a hug" or heres a safe hug to get you through the day, we dont haev to specify any details.

no link please -

if she is now doing housework, I don't think I would worry to much, especially if you are suspect of her intentions anyway ( hugs). Some, for some reason known to only them like to pull on your heartstrings for the hell of it.

But, next time you feel overwhelmed by someone, putting up a link to help someone or send hugs is acceptable. And, believe me, they will get a hug or help from the entire group.

I agree with Jazzer on this...thank you

what
s the step by step detail in which to put up a link ?
Isnt there someway that DS can check on a person membership and the person recent post and/are hugs?
i take such threats as being just that but at same time we must gard ourselves from vaccumm people.
In my life time I noted that some are calling out for someone to listen to them - to purg thierselves of the pain they feel at that moment.
We can only chat with them and let them talk thur what ever clouded at that moment.

Some thur out a period of time they give out warnings in hope to be comfortant & stopped and for someone to take away thier pain and to resolve dificult in thier personal lives.
the latter only pdoc and therapest can assist.

Some wanting to be heard and comforted - will accidents happen that they thierselve did not wish.
Again on line all we can do is try to extract info such as ph no, e address in which to provide our local pd who are trained to deal with such matters.

The good news is that DS members know that we're here for them and they can vent and share and know that they are not actually alone, they have us and they have available DS.

We can not get in our car and go to them and even if we could we are not trained to deal & handle such so the best we can do is to be here when they wish to share & vent and, we half to keep some distance to protect our over all well being- similar to medical staff who also care but protect thier own well being.

Will do share info on how to add link and post other DS member post as links.