It has been a year where I have felt my husband withdrawn, I thought it was normal since he was in the military and we are used to being apart, he had to get out for a back injury even though he didnt want to get out, was unemployed then hired then unemployed again in a year, he is in school full time (even though he doesnt like it, but GI bill helps with bills) and works part time at a retail store. I work in law enforcement so my schedule keeps us apart as well. We are still stuck in the state where we were stationed at, he is really homesick. I started noticing him being to friendly with a female co-worker, I didnt like it and told him to stop but continued the friendship, this has put a strain in our marriage since it made me insecure, we would fight about him keeping things from me, recently he made two suicide attempts in the last month, kept telling me he was done with me and that he stopped loving me for 3 years and that he wants a divorce, he was then diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and stress, he blames me for this. He would often tell me that he felt numb, empty, and dead inside, that he didnt know how to love, and that he couldnt find himself living in this state or when we would visit our home state, I am so confused, he keeps telling me that he fell out of love with me, can be mean, but then he will come and hug me telling me he misses me and that I need to let him go, I can't, I love him so much, and for now we are in seperate bedrooms, I have no idea how to be around someone who says he doesnt love me and wants to divorce me, I feel this is the depression talking, this is a completely different person than the man I married 8 years ago, please help me!!!!
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