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Help Help Help I am so scared

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I don't Know what to do , I have never been suicidal, I am not sure that I am now but what is t=left of my life now is totally falling aprart. I can't stppt crying and I don't have anyone to call to help me..... i'm going to take a deep breath and ask saomeone ,,, but i am crying so hard I don't enven have moi eyes open so thsii may ve hard to read, Ih god, I, couldd'nt see my kids thaaaaaanks giving, becaaouso myi husband tooek thenm away frin me. I trruuly want too diie now becaauase I doo''nt know if I will get to see then agaian or if they wiil ber be wuth ne again.o If I can't be with my childrenn then I don't think Life is worth living,,,,,,,,,eo]]woulddddddddddddd you?????????
Lliiife is a gaaame yoouuu doon''t alllllllllwayss winn, I didn't wwwwwwwiin, My kiids diidn't wwinn, eiiiiiither. May
God HHAAAVE MEEERRRRRRRCY ON THEM.
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sweetheart, your husband cant just take the kids for no reason, you need to see a solicitor hun, please tell us what happened to you xx
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My heart is breaking for you. Did the court take the kids away or is it a visitation schedule you are following? Honey the best thing you can do now is get help immediately. Go to your local er or call a crisis center. You need some help and therapy to get through this. Maybe help and getting well is what it will take to get your kids back hon.
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I know you're scared right now. It's so frightening to see no way out of a situation. But life is worth living because there are always new possibilities and you can fight for your children and yourself only if you are alive to do it. It's only fear, abbys. You believe you have lost everything, but you haven't. It may take time and patience, but you can grow determination out of fear. I know you can.
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abbys, listen to me. I have been in this exact position before and you will see them again. I have full custody of my girls now and I didn't like 4 years ago. So I thought they were better off without me but they are not because if I wasn't here now they would be in bad shape. Their Dad is in a bad way right now. They will always need you.
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Please get help now
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(big hugs) Listen to the others, please.
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Abby, please reply, let us know your there. Things are dark right now, but things always always change. your kids will always need you.. YOU WILL SEE THEM IF YOU PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER. Don't do anything to harm yourself. Get help. we care.
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holding you in my heart. May God give you strength and hope. xx
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Are you there?
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sweetheart please get help, your kids need their mummy and im sure you can get this sorted out. please listen to us, we can help if you let us xxxxxx
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My ex threatedned to take my kid away from me, and the truth is that in the legal system he can't. So take charge, you have not lost, get a court order so that there are specific visitation times that the Dad can see his kids. you have the upper hand. And why the hell would your husband take them away from you, shouldin't he be your ex husband? I really hope you are taking meds for your depression, it will make things a lot clearer, I know they did for me. Depression is the worst fucking illness in the world, it is so terrible, I know, but you'll get through it. Just have hope, and go see your doctor sweetie.
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I know what state of mind you have to be in when your in that primal state of fear and the crying is so extreme you can barely breathe. Take a deep breath collect yourself. I am sorry this is happeneing to you I truly am. But you have to live for your children and for everyone else who cares about you. Don't give up. We are all here for moral support. Talk to me anytime you want to.

Vanessa (anytime at all)
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Abbys we are here for you and know that you are having a really tough time...I am so sorry you are alone and that the kids are not with you. It's OK to cry and let it out...try to let us know how you are managing...you're not alone now here at DS!!!!!
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talk to us abbys
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I am still here, my tears have subsided a bit. A neighbor who has much less than I came to my door and asked for a simple need...how funny...she was quite perplexed....but I was able to help her easily. It made me feel good. My own problem is so muchmore complicated. Although...perhaps.. whith the help of all of you... not insurmountable...i'm not entirely sure....i will press on..... But\, I do feel a bit better about being able to provide a very small bit of comfort to someone who is in a GREAT deal of nead. ( a gave her and her daugheter some leftover food and a blanket). It makes sme sound like some Rich Bitch in a Penthouse, but I am not that at all. I am just a lady in an cheap apartment that I would share with any other women with a hungry cold child who needs food and a warm place to sleep.
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