I haven't been on this site for many years. Since my husband died. It helped me so much then that I went to therapy for over 2 years. Now I find myself in the same predicament with my daughter again. It's such a long story. But my daughter and her family (husband and 2 daughters) lived with me for 12 years. They moved into their own house 3 years ago leaving me in a wrecked home and broke. I sold the house, paid off all debts and now live alone. That's ok because my granddaughters talked to me every day. About 6 months ago, they started telling me things she would say and they didn't know what to do. I listened and tried to give advice. About a month ago she found out and told me if I didn't stop talking about her to them I would not be allowed to see them. So the next time one of them called me, I told her I couldn't talk about it. My daughter thinks I, trying to turn them against her. So I told her that I'm still getting these calls and we are worried about her. Well now I've done it because I don't hear from them at all. I believe she has told them not to speak to me. I'm heart broken.
My anxiety is over flowing I don't know what to do I'm so tired I'm trying to look after my wife who as a broken ankle both of her knees are swollen can not even walk with a frame. I'm doing what I can to help and run the house but I'm finding it difficult to cope my health is bad I just want to sit and cry I'm so fed up.
This is the first time I've ever done anything online this way, but I'm already extremely grateful for the few posts I've read. I'm reminded that this is a difficult time for everyone, not just me, as my thoughts try to convince me. I've been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder for over 20 years and after making big changes in my life, I am experiencing "new" symptoms such as waking with intense...