I have only one week left until my youngest child leaves for school. I'm in such dispair. Haven't a clue how to live my own life. How do you find yourself after living for your children for nearly twenty years? What an empty feeling I have. I'm so torn as well. Do I stay here in Texas so my daughter won't be alone? She has her father who does love her but is not emotionally available. She has her boyfriend which is a little comfort but all family is on the East coast. She's in school only 3 hours away. I hate Texas! My son will be going to school in VA and will be surrounded by family. I want to be there. I know she is an adult but I've made her so dependent on me, as I'm dependent on her. Last year while she was away at college we still saw each other every couple of weeks. I stayed married for my children and they are no longer children. I'm so overwhelmed. Advise is welcomed.
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