I don't think that's possible. Part of love is sexual attraction. It's in our nature as human beings to be sexually attracted to the person we are in love with

my one gay friend matt had that happen... they are still togehter...i dont really know how they work it out but its been working for 6 months now

i think it is possible to be in love without a sexual attraction. But in order for someone to be a spouse sexual attraction is necessary. It is important to have a great friend who you love.

I would have agreed until recently. Maybe it's just the emotional support I'm getting off her but I have recently met a great girl who has helped me a hell of a lot. I have to say I'm not sexually attracted to her but I have very strong feelings for her that I think are due to the fact that , if she hadn't been there I don't know how I would have coped.

There are all different kinds of love...sex does not necessarily play a part in all loving relationships.

Look how deeply you can love your parents, or a child or a sibling...there is no sex involved there and yet the love is deep.

You can be attracted to her mind and heart. It does not always have to be sexual. When you start with the mind and heart the other falls in place if it is meant to be.

Yes.

I love my dad, but I have not fallen in love with him. I believe being in love is very different to loving someone. Being in love involves incredibly deep physical and emotional ties, one of which (in my opinion) is sexual attraction

yes, I have...When I first met the man I am married to now, he and I were complete opposites, he had this blue hair, piercings all over, "skater pants" I am more of the girlie girl type, I am the primper...he wasnt at all wha I normally go for, but that all quickly changed, the man has skills!

Never been in love full stop. too many complications. Like this lol

I think it is possible...I have had a number of friends who I cherish, miss when they were not there, counted on, adored...And my feelings for them are not the same way as I feel toward my friends that are of the same sex, and not the same way that I love my child or my parents...

One of these dear, dear friends of mine--I felt so much for him, except physical attraction--overtly anyway. I admired him physically. Maybe I could have found it in me if I crossed that bridge in our relationship. (he wasn't an unattractive person either...)--When I was on the phone with him, in my heart, he was my guy (mentally, because we never were physical.) When I was with him, I loved being near him, I loved his presence, I loved being hugged by him. It was weird though, it was more like having been a couple for a million years--but I even had butterflies for phone calls and time spent together. One of the last conversations I had with him, I told him that I always figured that I would marry him when I was sixty. I felt so strongly for him, but I felt we both had so many things to do in a variety of directions (I don't mean other partners to experience--just life)...He told me, "It's good to know you ever even entertained the idea." I can still hear his voice in my head. He died in a fire not too long after that. That was 12 years ago. I still miss him so much--like he was my soul mate. Sometimes I think he was my other wing, and I have felt off kilter in life since he died. (I don't brood endlessly, but he is always in my mind.) I am glad I told him about my thoughts--that I valued him and connected to him on that level. It is a confusing thing to feel so strongly for someone, but not to have that overwhelming physical attraction.

So anyway...yeah. Totally possible.

Thats very close to what I was trying to describe Sun. I feel all the same things. Even just slouching together watching TV is a pleasure to me. Just having her there is enough to lift my mood. I actually wish I was physically atracted to her then she would be my perfect partner.

interesting you should ask that....i can't imagine having sex w/ my bf...weird, isn't it? i think he's good looking but not in a sexual way...but i'm in love with him

love and sex are 2 completely different things, you can have sex with anyone but you can fall in love with very few people.

In a way yes. My husband was my friend for a long time before we ever moved beyond that point. There was nothing, beyond being male, about him that matched up with what I normaly looked for in guys, totaly not my type so WOW was that first kiss and real shocker.
We moved from "just friends" to never parted with just one kiss. Don't know where the electricity was hiding but he still makes me weak in the knees after several decades.

I have fallen in love with a man I was initially not attracted to... the attraction grew after I was in love with him.