I've had this friend since I joined,and we have been so close all this time, we even talked on the phone,and I don't give my number out to anyone on here. I noticed she seemed kinda distant lately, but I figured she was just busy. Yesterday we were on the phone, because I needed some advice about my love life, and she got really short with me. Said she had to go, and then called back a few minutes later, and told me that something I said in one of her journal comments upset her, and that I didn't understand her. Didnt see that one coming! We were so close, always there when one or the other was having a problem. I told her she knew she is one of my best friends, and I would never hurt her on purpose, and maybe I wrote it wrong, but I didn't mean it to make her feel bad, I was trying to be encouraging. She said she was sick of the whole depresion/anxiety thing, etc. I was so hurt, I cried, but I told her I still loved her very much, and I wouldn't bother her, but if she decided she ever wanted to be friends again, i would be here, no questions asked. She just made me feel like all the times she said how much I helped her and what a great friend i was meant nothing anymore. Has this happened to anyone else? It just makes me so sad, I'm not mad at her or anything, I just don't understand and wish I had my friend back. I've always kept my friend list small, so I could make sure all my friends get the attention they deserve, even when I'm to bummed to help, I do anyways, and I feel like no one is appreciating it anymore. I have some people who say they will always be here for me, but I don't know if I believe that anymore. I thought if anyone would always be there for me, it would be her, no matter what. so sad to lose someone you thought would always be your friend.
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