
Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
look here. You need professional help.
STAY STRONG!!
Try and start with a clean slate with her, do something ANYTHING with her, even if hubby doesn't want to join in. Sometimes my mom would take me out to lunch or shopping (even just window shopping) my Aunt would bake with me, my Gram would cook with me, my cousin would take me for coffee and just let me cry on her shoulder.
If she doesn't already have a journal, get her one. I know smoking is bad-I did it too. Try and talk to her and she what help she is willing to get, I know it's over stated but try and focus on her good habits and not her bad. She obviously needs attention and she is going to do whatever she can to get it-good or bad.
Sending you TONS of hugs, I feel for you!!!