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I know this probably only belongs in the 'Healthy relationships' forum, but you lot have been so helpful, I though you my have some idea's:
I split up with my ex (I split from her) a few years ago and though we didn't speak immediately, we are now very good freinds.
Problem is I love her. I don't just mean I am lonely and want whatever I can get, or any of those obvious reasons that people THINK they love their ex.
I mean she is the most amazing thing on gods green earth. She is perfect, even her flaws. If I had one day left I would spend it with her.
I once dreamt that we were together again, and when I woke up I cried, I mean PROPER CRIED (I'm not really a crier)!
She knows how I feel, but she does not want the same from me. I really hurt her back then. I was a bad guy, but I have changed dramatically since then. I just wish I could show her how strongly I feel, and how much better I am and how better WE could be.
I know it's never going to change and though I have dated other girls and will continue to do so, I always subconciously feel I would go back to her at the drop of a hat. To the point that I can see myself 10 years down the line, married, with kid's,and leaving them for her!
One day SHE will marry and I think I will kill the guy!
Truthfully, I've lost it haven't I? I just don't know how to move on. HELP ME!
I split up with my ex (I split from her) a few years ago and though we didn't speak immediately, we are now very good freinds.
Problem is I love her. I don't just mean I am lonely and want whatever I can get, or any of those obvious reasons that people THINK they love their ex.
I mean she is the most amazing thing on gods green earth. She is perfect, even her flaws. If I had one day left I would spend it with her.
I once dreamt that we were together again, and when I woke up I cried, I mean PROPER CRIED (I'm not really a crier)!
She knows how I feel, but she does not want the same from me. I really hurt her back then. I was a bad guy, but I have changed dramatically since then. I just wish I could show her how strongly I feel, and how much better I am and how better WE could be.
I know it's never going to change and though I have dated other girls and will continue to do so, I always subconciously feel I would go back to her at the drop of a hat. To the point that I can see myself 10 years down the line, married, with kid's,and leaving them for her!
One day SHE will marry and I think I will kill the guy!
Truthfully, I've lost it haven't I? I just don't know how to move on. HELP ME!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
ass hole is what we always call him .... The younger girls didnt know his name till just couple yrs ago
Sorry, I know its long but it think it's the root of all my problems and if I can work this out it might be a big step back to normality.
you don't need someone in your life who is going to hurt you, intentionally or unintentionally...
as hard as it is, nothings going to be the same as it was. nothing is going to fix itself. you gotta learn to let it go.
Sherose
You never mentioned what you did that was so "bad", but letting go of guilt is a great way to get out of a jam.
Just an observation.
I was kinda hopin someone would tell me how to get her back. But the general consensus is 'Get over it'
Any tips one way or t'other.
Its just that both seem fucking impossible!