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Feeling so let down

deleted_user
deleted_user
When i joined this site, i thought it was about helping each other. But it seems not matter how much i try and help other people, and no matter how many hugs i give out no one wants to know.
I send hugs just letting people know i am here if they need me, but i get nothing back.
This is just reinforcing that fact in my head that I'm not worth bothering with and i am useless. Im obviously not cool enough or something to warrant a reply.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are worth a reply... see
deleted_user
deleted_user
thanks x
deleted_user
deleted_user
You think youve got it bad... theres loadsa people on here that hate me and want me to leave but sod em lol. You have to remember that people go offline or are maybe on the phone etc and may not have seen your hugs or some people, like myself will say thanks for a hug from someone I dont know but rarely confide all to because I dont know them. It takes time to make friends anywhere and online, its so much harder. Relax and it will come :) Chat on the boards for a while as well... people will get to know you more for that than anything else :)
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
aint about being cool enough ... even though your av is pretty cool. Some people just dont respond all the time. Some people think you are just trying to cheer them up and some people jsut think too many hugs are given in general.

I try to always reply with a hug if I get one. Sometimes I dont know when to stop replying... :)

dont fret, you will be getting many hugs soon..
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm here for you. If you need to talk, drop me a line and I will get back as soon as I am able. Everyone deserves a helping hand. =)
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are definately worthy of a reply. Everyone on this site is important, especially you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
well if their in the same frame of mind as me, please don't it personal..

sometimes we hurt so bad we hurt those trying to help us out. sorry =( thanks for caring !!!!
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