well as some of you know, I have been going NUTS without a car. I have been having trouble getting to appointments for rehab, and counseling, as well as getting Julian * my son* to his appointments. When he got accepted for social security, they notified me that they owe him 22,075 dollars in back pay for the three years we faught for it. So when I went in to fill out all the paperwork and stuff , the lady told me that we can not spend any of the money on any thing except medical needs and education. She said that if I spent any of it on anything else, that I would have to pay social security back out of my own checks and that it wouldnt go back into his account but instead social security would keep it. Well, I cant keep going without a car, and so I went to the bank today and took out 1500 dollars, to go get a car and put it on the road, Hopefully by next week I will be mobile. I feel guilty and Im a little nervous about when they find out I took it, and dont know how they will make me pay it back, Like will it be in installments or will they take my check for two and a half months in full. I dont know. Its too late now though, I am not allowed to deposit into the account, or they will hold the whole amount of his retro against us as assets, and we will be screwed. I feel as though I had no choice though. I really need to get a car and start getting my life back together. Any opinions ??
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